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First Kiss Gone Wrong?

Well I went to a party with my boyfriend a few days ago. We had never kissed before, but everyone at th party was making out, so we eventually kissed. My first kiss. :P We kissed three times on the lips. The first one I had no idea what to expect, and our lips met but all of a sudden he opened his mouth so I pulled away... Is that normal guy behavior or did he even know what he was doing? The second time, he bit my lip. A friendly one. Is THAT normal? And the third I really dont think meant anything. What do I do if he wants to makeout? How do you even makeout? I have very little experience and I really dont know what to expect when that happens.. :/ Thanks :D

Update:

IM 12!!!!!!! :OOOO Thats why its so weird!!!!O_O

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    i turned 13 yesterday ! well i had my first makeout when i turned 12 .. you gotta tell your boyfriend to take it slow with you dont worry he'll think its cute =] and yeh what he did was normal .. but dont let him pressure you into it k ? =] um well to make out wid some1 :

    when he puts his lips to your open your lips a little bit but not to much and go with the flow.. you'v obviously seen ppl pash on movies ?

    when you's kiss it'll all just happen its natural just go wid the flow..

    Tip: dont go crazy the first time ! go to a place where you wont get interupted coz then it mite be akward.. if you wanna stop tell him ! .. dont let ya hormones take ova n do more then kissing um make sure you have good breath ! =]

    GOod luck !! hope i helped =] x

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Opening your mouth to kiss someone is, like, BEYOND normal, it's more like a way of life between couples, and people who have been in a relationship for years kiss like that as if it's nothing. It's called a French kiss, and yes your tongues touch. When I first heard I thought it was gross, but hey, and if he bites your lip thats SEXY, don't push away from him. Of course you were nervous since it was your first kiss but if he is your boyfriend and not just some random dude than give it a chance, and let him kiss you in a more intimate way. This is ALL very, very, very normal, everyone goes through the "first kiss" that is anticipated but when it actually comes you're like a deer caught in the headlights.

    Once again, don't worry, you'll begin to like it all :)

  • 1 decade ago

    You are probably very young and innocent. Just because everyone is doing something, dose not require you to do the some thing. It did not feel right because you did it just for doing it. The time will come in your life when you will do it because you are ready and you have a desire for it. Believe me at that point it will fill right at the first time and you don't have to learn it, because it will be natural, it will also fill heavenly.

    As far as making out, it should be something very special in your life. Remember you only have one chance for that first time, make sure that you absolutely ready and it is with someone whom you want in your life forever. If you 12, 16, 17 or even 21 they just come and go. That is unfortunately the way life is.

  • 1 decade ago

    Don't worry1 This was your first kiss. it might not have been fireworks and all that, but you have no experience. just go with it next time and eventually you will get bette at it. After all, making out is like America's Favorite Past time (baseball is soo old school). In the meantime, practice a lot. And remember, have fun! (But not too much....) :D

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    ALL WHAT HE DID WAS RIGHT !

    woman, if u wrnt comfortable then u should have told him that u didnt wanna have ur first kiss at a club.....

    kissing is easy... just relax n let d guy do his job since u duno much... the biting is just teasing.... it should make u want to kiss him more.... n when he opened his mouth he just wanted to feel ur tongue which is a nice feeling.... first time is always weird so dont worry about it....

    make sure hes not using u..... n if u guys kiss again i think u should tell him that u never kissed before .. im sure hel give u a few hints...to help u kiss better... :)

  • ?
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    its something that you do when you are comfortable and at your own pace. yes it is normal on both your questions for a guy to do that. some tend to move faster then women and just expect them to follow. if you are comfortable follow him the next time you do end up kissing. i would wait for his move first to see if he is even willing to try it again. My first time my mind went totally blank , as did the second and third time. and yes at twelve it will be weird if you are not kissing everybody in town. at your age that is normal for stuff to be weird like that. Don't sweat it. if this guy likes you enough he will wait till you are prepared and comfortable. my first real kiss was at 15 heh.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Lol, It takes time to get used to but its fun! Yeah It's normal. Very normal actually. My first kiss wasn't thaatt fun lol! Ur first kiss sounds like it went right not wrong.Good job! lmfao. Remember... everyone has their first time and ...no one starts their first kiss with experience. you gotta practice first! and your question...how do you make out? --you already know the answer to that question. just go with the flow and enjoy.

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  • 1 decade ago

    haha. ur funny. of course it's normal. just go through with it. But don't if you feel uncomfortable. There's no right or wrong way to kiss. There's only the ability to make horrible mistakes.

  • Lex
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Just relax and enjoy it!

    First time he was probably trying to french you! It's cool once you get the hang of it, you'll feel your heart palpitating up in your throat, it's gonna be awesome!

    Second time it's normal!

    Trust the more you get the hang of it the more likely you are to lose control, so don't!

    Once I almost ended up going third base at the theatre!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    if you wanna email me about this i can help a bit if u ever have questions: countrygirl960960@gmail.com

    and yes everything he did was normal guy kiss instinct. you make out by following his lead (if he's experienced) but basically you kiss normal then open your mouth a bit and kiss a while and you can pick if you want to explore his mouth or not and everything.

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