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PoLL: How do I become seLfish? both sexes r weLcumed 2 answer...?
My bf takes me 4 granted & I'm tired of it. I do so much 4 him & although he does 4 me as well, its nowhere near as much as i do 4 him. Anywho, I'd like to be less selfless & more selfish.. guys tend 2 be selfish & women still stick around... no smart aleck answers. Thanx :)
As you can see I dont even know how 2 b selfish which is why i was asking for help. LoL thank you except the charge 4 sex answer. I know what I have to do.
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- TebiaLv 51 decade agoFavorite Answer
In all honesty, girl, you should not lower yourself like that. You are stooping down to guys who don't have the same values as you. I have to emphasize how important it is to stick with someone with the same values or it will never work. Do not change youself in a negative way just to stick around guys who obviously aren't good for you. Trust me, there are guys out there who value selfless females. Selfishness is the root of all divorces, btw. Hope you find a decent guy in the future :-)
- Anonymous1 decade ago
don't become selfish! that would just be creating another problem. Selfishness is not an appealing personality trait. Do you want people to think of you the way you think of your boyfriend? There are too many selfish people in this world so it's a good thing that you're selfless. If someone can't appreciate that, then they shouldn't be receiving it.
- 1 decade ago
If you want to be selfish..if you want him don't let go of him but if you want to be happy live him right away and find someone who can make you happy.
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