How do you get out of an unhappy relationship?

first of all you have to be confident in your self that you can make the move. second, you have to have a game plan where are you gonna go.

third know its not gonna be easy at first, its the best for you and your kids.

you can do it, don't think that you have wasted time.

but your wasting more time just thinking about it

Make the decision to change. Unless you are willing, nothing is going to happen. Have you tried some counseling before you give up? Leaving a relationship should be the last resort, think hard about the consequences and that sometimes there's no turning back. You got to weigh out the costs. I wish you the best and happiness too.

damn, thats unlucky. Yo, if its unhappy, just break up. Its not worth bringing up your kids in a unhappy environment. Seriously, break up if the relationship is always fighting, etc, cause your kids will grow up with that otherwise. You dont want that do you?

If theres no chance in fixing it, then just pack your things, as well as the kids, and go. Or pack his things and tell him to leave. File for a divorce if youre married. Work out guardianship and visitations. Pick up the pieces and move on.

That's a very difficult situation. An almost impossible one. I wish I could give you a good answer but I can't.

No easy enswer. If you do leave though it will get a lot worse before it gets better.

Think about it this is huge desition. but you just have to do what you have to do id talk to him then the kids alone

do it cold turkey. just done. say im done its over. get out of it as soon as you can its not healthy and the longer you wait the harder it will be. i wish you the best of luck!

please help me its a real short question but i need help!

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Just walk out the door and find a lawyer.

get your affairs in order... have somewhere to go and leave...been there with a 3.5 and a 1.5 year old.. life is short