I may be crazy but I think my wife secretly hates me, is this too far fetched. What would be the signs?

1. she won't kiss and comes up with lame reasons for why.

2. she no longer laughs when you fart.

3. she insults you car/truck.

4. she says your wang is small.

5. she makes bad references to your friends.

6. she calls your mom a whore.

6. she says you should go back to the trailer park.

7. your breath stinks like Skoal and bottom shelf whiskey.

8. she' rather sleep with the dog.

9. she screws with your underwear.

Have you tried going to marriage counseling? My husband and I went when we were engaged and got a lot out there on the table. It can be really hard to communicate with your spouse sometimes and really easy to build up bad feelings. I would also really recommend the book and movie Fireproof. It will be hard but if it changes things so much for the better don't you think it's worth it. Try doing things for her without being asked (and don't look for a complement or a thank you even if you deserve one or she will just get annoyed). Complement her often but don't expect a nice response. She will probably just brush it off for a while but after a while she will see that you are really trying and she might start to come around. I know that sounds hard and very one sided but try not to get frustrated and pray about it and hopefully things will work out for you soon. Good luck and God bless :)

your marriage is going through a bad patch talk to her ? have a break from each other . she seems Little bored at the moment put some spice back into your lifes . book a holiday , if you can afford it somewhere she always wanted to go .do more around the house . etc sit her down and tell her how she is making you feel . good luck .

I don't think she hates you. Maybe she just wants some attention. Like, for you to show that you actually really care and put some effort into it. Talk to her and tell her how you feel, especially if what she says & does hurts your feelings. And you can ask her what you can do to help ease her need to be mean to you.

mabye she is bored and tired of you not being sensitive to her feelings. Your probly like all other selfish typical men, want what u want, when you want it< and pay no attention to the other persons feelings while your on your selfish escapade. Try doing something different and stop being so predictable, she is probly bored outta her mind and you probly just sit on the couch scratching your nuts all the time.

Mabye u should kiss her like she is your mistress or something

Good Grief.."says messed up things, then opens her eyes to see what my reaction is..."

hates you? no. in need of a mental evaluation? yes.

Sounds like you did something to piss her off and she doesn't want to open her mouth to tell you what. Did you forget her birthday or your anniversary or something?

Why don't you take her out somewhere special and do something random that will surprise her?

She is playing games with you dude! Once they start playing games cheating is usually next the play! So watch out!

perhaps she thinks you suck in bed and find it hard to tell you so she is playing playing mind games with you. it's wierd. if she doesn't have a job, tell her to get one and grow up. too much idle time can make one do wierd things.

If she cooks and washes for you and takes some of you pay check, I guess there is still some love there.