tihs girl and i dont have alot in common, help!?

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Sooo i like this one girl at my school, and she says we dont have alot in common because i like healthy foods like pecans, pestachios and she hates them and i like tea and coffee and she hates tea. And she hates running and loves basketball and i like to run for fun and play soccer track and crosscountry and im not too good at basketball. And well what im trying to say is i dont really know what to do to see what we have in common. I thought she liked me and was trying to figure out what equalitys we have. Soo maby i screwed up, or was i just being to honest?

Nuclear · Accepted Answer

Sometimes opposites attract ;)
It's good when each party to the relationship can bring something new and exciting to the table. It's a good way to mix things up and keep it from getting dull. You guys should teach each other new things, try out what the other is interested in just to see if you"ll like it..come on guys compromise =)
Good luck!

? · Answer

Its good that you were honest& a lot of people say opposites attract don't worry about it, im sure if she really likes you she won't care whether you do or don't have every think in common, as you get to know her better you will realise you have a lot more in common then what you thought!!
Hope this helps!!

Bree · Answer

Well...doesn't really matter what food you like...& it's good that ya'll are both active even if in different ways...see if ya'll have different stuff in common like goals, interest (movies, books, what you wanna do wit your life....)  & sometimes opposites do attract!!!! Try to get to know her better & see if she shows any kind of interest in what you say or do!!!

douche bag · Answer

Don;t base the relationship off some foods you dislike

Im sure you will find more qualitys that both of you have in common.

Good luck.

Anonymous · Answer

being in a relationship with a girl who has few common interests with you wouldn't be very fun anyways. if she really wanted to like you she'd at least try to learn more about what you like to do

? · Answer

common interests are helpful, but not necessary. If you keep talking to her and hanging out, im sure you'll find something that you both like

? · Answer

I think there should be a few things that each one of you should like,
just what are you going to talk about? or where are you going to go on a date? and if can't find anything that you agree on and can talk about I think your in deep mud with this person.
Just keep looking you will find the one.....

[preTTy gUrLisH]....lyke [duh] · Answer

a little to honest. just talk to her and stuff. as a friend to you find something you both have a lot in common in

O C · Answer

opposites attract. its more fun if you play basketball together and one of you is rubbish. its more amusing than a full on professional game of basket ball or something

Anonymous · Answer

then u don't like her
if u started a relationship it's gonna go real bad

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