Why the hell did God make men so sexually undesirable to women compared to other women?

It's an aggrivating and unfortunate fact that women are intitally more into kissing each other and are more quick to do it without hesitation if one tries to make it happen, and some women have the audacity to say kissing another woman is better than kissing a guy. How the hell is that supposed to make the man feel? God created the man the way he is, the way he looks, the way his mind is wired, he can't help it.

Whatever is it about men that God makes them so sexually unappealing to women that they have to put forth EFFORT to make women like them and eventually want sex and to be with them, whatever it is that God creates about the man's appearance and his lips that make women desire other women more instead, I just hope that in the afterlife as spirits, female spirits will finally be more sexually interested in male spirits.

Women are not as inititally sexually interested in men as vice versa and this is unfortunate in my opinion, I just hope things are different between men and women in the afterlife called Heaven. yes, women may like a guy, yes, she may eventually want to get sexually intimate with him, yes, she may eventually love him and want to be with him much more than any woman if they marry and have children together, but that's rarely the case inititally. Intially, she is not sexually into him anywhere near as much as he's into her and he has to put for EFFORT to make something happen.