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I need help Girls manly?

ok so i told you before and if you didnt see me ask a question about this well heres the story i broke up with my love of my life cause i had people that was going to hurt her and i didnt want that now i really want her back and i just found out that she is going to go out with one of my bestest friends that i know and he's 17 and she talks about him all the time and it hurts so bad. so i stopped talking to her cause she just kept talking about him. So i started to hang out with one of my other friends that is also one of my exs and i think i like her and i want to go out but i also dont think i really want to makeout with her cause the girl thats going out with my best friend was my first kiss and makeout is this bad or is it normal that i find it weird to make out with anyone else but her. and i mean any one else even Megan Fox plz help i cant stop thinking about this and i need help bad

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  • 1 decade ago
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    you need to tell her

    you absolutely HAVE to.

  • 1 decade ago

    I think you need time to let yourself heal a little. You can't just jump into something, or the next relationship, without knowing what went wrong with the first one.

    You said that people want to hurt her? Meaning you are involved in some kind of mafia or drug related business or gang? If that is so, then what's to stop this happening with the other girl (your ex).

    It looks like the "love of your life" has definitley moved on. And it sounds like it's probably because she thought you were a bit moronic. No 17 year old guy is that involved in something that his girlfriend's LIFE is on the line...and if so, then that's why she left.

    If you really want her back, turn your life and attitude around. Don't go for this other girl and remain single. Stay friends with the girl you truly love and wait it out. Let her see you've changed. Let things work themselves out on their own and then one day, maybe a year or so from now, you can finally have a chance again. But don't be with some other chick just because you have no one else. You're only hurting you both and why damage any more lives, if that really is the case?

  • wow man you got it good didnt ya?? well first of all tell your first kiss how you really feel about her and why you did what you did. im sure she thinks you did it for no reason. after that i would just chill out for a little bit dont get too involved with the other ex cause then your first kiss wil lthink you dont want her. i dont think your first kiss knows how much you love her yet. did you ever tell her exactly how you feel????

    hope i helped

    SSMÜ

  • Wow that sucks, one ur bestest friend is clearly not a friend and this girl that u once dated isn;t what u want either. ur settling. idk what u should do, bc in normal circumstances i'd say steal the girl back. u know what, that's what im going to advise. u had her first and u most really have feelings for her still, so make your move kiddo.

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  • 1 decade ago

    well its not like that for me just because im not that type of girl. i usually Just hook up with guys and move on. i have only had the feeling of not being in the mood to make out with some1 on a date with them once, but its not weird. like she was your first kiss and make out so your use to her and know one else, if i were you i would just not be scared. its really no big deal.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Few people in world will stay with their first love because People change and it is too sad but it is happening

    Get over it and move on!

  • 1 decade ago

    well...talk to her, by you not talking to her, nothing can ever happen between you, dont go back out with your ex because if she finds out she will think you have moved on and she will too. how where they going to hurt her if you didnt break up with her? whos "they"? im confused...

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    you need to calm down.

    she is over you (obviously) if she is going to go out with your "best" friend

    now u need to get over her

    give that other girl a chance

  • 1 decade ago

    you love her loads but maybe if you give this new girl a chance you might love her just as much or maybe more:D

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