Why did you start having sex? What made the decision for you?

Although it was tough the first time was my wedding night with my wife we had been together for 5 years and engaged for 2.5 years. Yes we had desire but each of us had to control the others desire at differing times.

In my case, I was the persistent one. Being a chick, it's usually the other way around. If it's the right moment, person too, and as long as you don;t feel rushed or bad about it afterwards, it's ok. But if you are feeling rushed or have bad or regretful feelings about it later, then that's when you knwo something isn't right.

I started having sex because it just felt right. He felt like the right person. I loved him and also, he was the first guy to not mention a word about having sex. It let me know that he was respectful. If after you had sex.... you asked yourself why you did it..... Then there's something wrong. You know it's the right time when you don't ask yourself whether you should or should have sex. It just feels right. Trust me.... I went out with a guy for almost 2 yrs and I never had any sexual contact with him. My friends didn't want to believe me. Also, he kept asking me for sex. With the guy that I lost my virginity to, we had just been going out for 1 month and I wanted to have sex with him.

Curiosity. I just wanted to find out how it felt to have intercourse. It was also desire but mostly curiosity.

well that is a kinda hard question but I think it was probably desire I guess

Cause i was really interested wanted to and felt awesome. Even better today. :-)

It just happened.

i didn't... im too young, only 15-in october

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