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I was at pub/club/bar with a group of friends/acquaintances. There I grinded with a lot of girls most of whom I knew. My dancing was pretty random except I was focusing on this one chick trying to spend longer amounts of time with her . I spent about 50% of my time with her, mostly dancing. I thought that she liked me before we ever went to the club. Our faces got very close multiple times and I tried to make sure our lips touched while talking and dancing. I never kissed her and certainly did not want to make out in public (like a drunken couple). Everything was going great from my perspective. She would look over at me if I was talking with someone else. She had no problems holding my hands while dancing.

So I did what any reasonable man would do, I asked her to leave. She said no and I though she wanted to dance more. But as the night got late, she kept saying no even when she said she was tired (I probably asked 3 - 5 times over 3 hours). She could have left me at any time with only slight resistance. I was getting annoyed with her. We ended up leaving with several other people; she didnt walk next to me, I didn't want to be clingy and accepted my fate for the night.

I would not change a single action from the night except I might have kissed her once. I only have a slight theory and I wonder if you have any others. She was very drunk that night and may have been nervous about doing something she would regret. I do not think she has been very sexually active and perhaps I gave off the vibe that I was pushing her towards sex. She did tell her/my friends that she would make out with me early in the night. I think that there is a very small chance that she didnt know I wanted her b/c of the dancing with other girls. I was drunk but certainly much less so than was she.

Do you think it is time to just forget about her or should I give her a little bit longer to warm up? I tend to want to give her another chance b/c I like her, but perhaps we just dont match-up. I will see her many more times with my friends, the only time we could really be alone would be if I could get her to leave on a night that we partied somewhere. I really do like her as a person but I am not going to put up with that behavior for much longer b/c I could spend my nights talking to other girls that are interested in me.

Just curious if anyone has any insight into why she acted this way.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    umm because she's not a wh0re and she wants to get to know you instead of sleeping with you after dancing with you in a sweaty club?

    this girl sounds like she has morals.

    you made a mistake by asking her to leave with you so many times. if she says no the first time, back off. lol, but i'd give her another shot. try just asking her out to dinner or something where the two of you can talk one on one. that way, you can feel out the situation and actually see if she is into you, or if she just liked you as a dancing partner.

  • 1 decade ago

    All she wanted to do was dance with you, nothing more. She might have gotten really angry if you kissed her. Find someone who is interested in you. She is not.

  • 1 decade ago

    forget about her. she was interested in dancing and nothing else.

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