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I want to move out! I hate myparents?

Okay, I'm 13 years old. I have two parents, and a brther. I am sick and tired of teh way tehy treat me! I am a good daughter; I get perfect grades, play mulitple intruments great, babysit for no charge, and do everything I'm supposed to do. But They always yell at me fore everything. I get a stomach ache and say "ow, I feel nauseated" and my dad expldes and says 'well, whaddaya want me to do? take you to teh emergency room? Oh no! Maybe you're gonna die!" Oh, and he's in teh process of converting t a different religion. Wich I'm not too happy about.

And my mom is just awful. She works alot, and tells me off. Both swear and I start crying because now by brother is repeating what they say. I hate where I live, I ahve no real friends, and I want to live with my aunt and uncle. My parents laughed when i told them this. they think I'm joking. I will move in a heartbeat if alloed, but the only thing I am worried about is college. They saved up about half my college tuition, and I really need it. I want to go to collenge. But I'm afraid they won't give it to me. I am taking my cat with me, too. I just feel awful and want to know what to do. My life is as is spiraling out of control, and I want to get away fom it. I want to go live with my aunt and uncle in the'r small Missouri town. The're daughters (my cousins) are both in college 2000 miles away, so they have extra room

Update:

yeah, they always act like that. :P

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Maybe they're just worried about you ..

    Parents go paranoid about their kids after they reach a certain age . Are they always like that ? :<

  • h
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    u r just 13, the beginning of teenage years. i can understand wot u feel 'coz when i was a kid of ur age, i used to feel the same way, the only difference being that my mom didnt work. look just try to convince ur parents that u wanna move in with ur aunt and uncle 'coz u think that it will help u in the future and will better ur grades and also u will find friends there...

    look, wot i have gained from my experience is that next time ur mom n dad yell or curse at u, dont respond back...when u cry, it gives them confidence that they can surely break ur confidence and u r not weak..this may sound stupid 2 u, but trust me, it works. u have a headache, stomach-ache, just keep ur mouth shut and go n take tylenol, its nothing major right...?? when ur parents c u doin that, they will also think that u feel bad when they yell at u or curse at u...

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    first i want to let u know that nobody could have life exactly the way they want it. i dont know how you act with them, so try not to have an attitude, alot of teenagers do. being good is not necessarily getting good grades, but also by giving respect. also, if you want to get respect, you have to show them you should get it. if ur father says something like that, try saying something like, "dad, id really appreciate if you could tell me in a better way." you will suprise him, even if if has a rebuttal. just try not talking back.

    just remember ur parents are still ur parents, and u should respect them. i bet ur parents work hard to feed and cloth u, have u ever appreciated that? And dont u know how much trouble they went through raising you, or how hard ur mothers labor was? When was the last time you went to them and said "i love you" or "thank you for everything?"

    You cant run away from ur problems. use ur brain and put urself in their position-how much they stress out, financially, etc. You have it pretty easy, at least ur parents dont beat u like millions of others do, or refuse to feed you or send you to school, be thankful...

    one more thing:you dont want to be one of those many people that are always away from their parents, seeing them only once a year, until they die. and they wont have any memories to cherish with them. you only have one father and mother.

    as for your brother: alot of young boys are immature, and they are still learning, try to deal with it, not running.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Maybe you are over reacting or maybe your parents are crazy! If you feel it's better to go live with your aunt then you will have to find other ways to pay for you education. Don't take this the wrong way but you should spell check your documents before you post them. You should stick it out for your brother. He will be alone if you leave.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Well you have another 5 years to worry about college. Also your aunt and uncle have just finished raising their kids, I doubt they will want to take on another right now.

    It sounds like you are ticked because you didn't get much sympathy for your stomache ache. Your parents have their own problems, like why is your mother working so much? Is it to raise money for your college? Your father likewise is conflicted about his faith.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Be patient.

    You don't need to rely on your parents to have a successful life.

    The only person who can make that happen is YOU!

    Keep on being the best you can be. It will all be worth it in the end.

  • 1 decade ago

    i my selve am very shy so whenever my mom screams at me i ask i i can go into my room and scream/cry in my pillow...so your not gonna get a good answer from me:(.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    wow im sooo sory

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