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plz i need some advise plz answer reli long but 10 points for best answer?

okay im 16 last yr around august i got took away from my mother and my dad got costody of me, well my dad was dating this women named sharon fisher well now they are married, she abuses my dad mentially and physically, wel one day she called me a slut and my mother a pill popper that hurt me bc that is my mother my dad did not believe me he took her side,after that i moved in with my gran which is my dads mom, well than dad kept moving back and forth, his wife would kick him out for talking to me for giving me money or anything! well than my gran was put in the hospital, and daddy started seeing his wife again, than my dad od and tried illing his self so now i live with my moms parents, my dad promised me many of times he wouldnt go back to her bc she hates me i cannot talk to my dad if they are together, well i jus fount out my dad back with her, im so tired of this i am his id shouldnt i come first???? my bf is 22 n i am 16 i reli love him alot and my grandparents kno i wit him and they like him alot, my dad doesnt kno about him, but i feel like it doesnt matter bc he can be with someone who keeps him away from his only daughter so i can be wit who makes me happy! am i wrong? i mean me n nathan have been together 4 6 months if my dad cared anything about me wouldnt he have found out by now?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I understand where you are coming from my step mom was like that too, and she would tell my dad that i was doing all this bad stuff just so she would look good in front of my dad and make me look bad and when i would tell my dad it wasn't true he believed her and not me,

    I never came first. I think you should tell your dad how feel i told that to my dad and that i wanted to leave because i couldn't be in the same house as her. which he still didn't believe me but now they are divorced because he finally realized and now everyone realized i was telling the truth and everyone knows what kind of person she is. So give it time and then work to make the relationship better. Me and my dad are on better terms now and i can actually talk to him. With your boyfriend if he makes you feel happy stay with him just don't get to attached because its only been 6 months take it slow but i have to say this age ain't nothin but a number and my fiance is 7 years older than me and everyone learned to accept it and that we love each other so that's the best advice i can give you and i hope you take it because you are in the exact situation i was in.

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    5 years ago

    1) I was born in: a hospital 2) I am really: bored 3) My cell phone company is Sprint 4) My eye color is: brown 5) i am allergic to nothing (invincible!) 6) My pet: 2 gineau pigs (Snickers and Oreo), 2 dogs (Sunny and Dare), a bird (Flip the Bird) a fish (Sebastian), and a kitten that never leaves my porch (Kippem) 7) Marriage is: stupid 8) My mom: is hilarious 9) Last YouTube video watched: Secular Haze (by ghost b. c. 10)The last three cd's I bought were: ? I Believe In: yes or no 1) Love at first sight: no 2) Luck: no 3) Aliens: no 4) Horoscopes: meh 5) Ghosts: no 6) magic: no Which is Better 1) Hugs or Kisses: Hugs 2) Phone or Online: online 3) Your Birthday or Christmas: Christmas 4) Night or Day: Night 5) Ugly and rich OR Sexy and poor: sexy and poor 6) Curly or Straight hair: curly 7) McDonalds or Burger King: McDonalds 8) Small town or Big city: big city 9) Hillary or Obama: Obama 10)Mac or PC: PC Here's What I Think About 1) George Bush: I couldn't care less 2) My Neighbors: creepy 3) Reality TV: annoying 4) The future: isn't in the past yet 5) War: is an idiotic way of resolving issues Last time I 1) Went to a wedding: when I was 7 2) Broke the law: stole a cupcake o.O 3) Cried in front of someone: when my best friend went all drama-y 4) Hugged someone: this morning 5) Took a vacation: this summmer MISC 1) Something I will really miss when I leave home is: my dogs 2) The thing that I'm looking forward to the most: summer again 3) The most difficult thing to do is: 4) My zodiac sign is: climb a frickin' rope 5) The worst sound in the world: skateboard revert 6) I lose all respect for people who: have ever been to Dutch Wonderland over the age of 12 7) The worst pain I was ever in was: ? 8) One thing that makes you feel great is: PIE 9) One person that you wish you could see right now: ? 10)More guy friends or girl friends: 'bout 50/50

  • 1 decade ago

    Your dad seems like a jerk, and you desreve to be treated way better than that. You can let your dad know about your boyfriend if you want to keep the communication between the two of you, but when it comes down to it, you cant let him get in the way of you and your boyfriend. you obviously dont need his approval! Do whatever makes you happy, because your happiness is all that matters! :)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    your dad is ina really unstable spot right now and he is wrong for putting you innthat pasition of not being able to see him or not have anything to do with him. that girl is one of those people you wish just were not on this earth but unforantley she is. we juss have to move on and you are not wrong he doesnt knoiw bcause he doesnt wNt to know he is choosing not to be in your life but be careful. you grandparents approve well they are they ones who are there for your so thats good

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