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coolio asked in Society & CultureEtiquette · 1 decade ago

Have I over reacted to my aunt's political chain email?

I got this email from a family member stating that Obama was worse than Hitler.

I responded back saying that she would not ever be allowed in house ever again until I received a written and signed apology.

I understand that not everyone likes president Obama, but to compare him to Hitler is just offensive.

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  • dude
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago
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    I do not agree with a lot of President Obama's ideas, but the general disrespect that is thrown his way is appalling just as it was with former Pres. Bush.

    Over reacted - Yes

    Just explain your view and let her know that you will not tolerate that kind of behavior around you

    Her opinions are hers, as offensive as they may be

    Did you think this way about former Pres. Bush as well?

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I think that you definitely overreacted. If your aunt seriously buys into that idea, then she's crazy, but maybe you could have replied with something like "I'd appreciate it if you didn't send me any more political emails" or something. Asking for a written and signed apology is ridiculous, even if your aunt was wrong. She most likely sent it as a joke; I think a better approach would just be to let her know you don't appreciate that kind of humor.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Yeah, you over reacted. Now you both owe each other apologies. Next time someone sends you an email with anything political or religious, respond back by saying, "Thank you for the email. However, I was taught that it is not proper to discuss politics or religion. So please refrain from sending such emails to me in the future. Thank you." I've had to reply like this to several emails. I kept getting political emails from a friend and religious emails from a cousin. The friend was mature enough to respect my wishes and we are still friends. My cousin got all bent out of shape and has refused to communicate with me. Oh well. I'm not concerned. I don't need immature people in my life anyway.

    Source(s): http://www.netmanners.com/email-etiquette/e-mail-p... -- An interesting article about receiving political emails http://www.netmanners.com/email-etiquette/5-rules-... -- An interesting article on the "5 Rules of Forwarding Email" -- I suggest you send this article to your aunt and anyone else who sends you political or religious emails.
  • Holly
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    I've got an older sister who spouts the same hateful BS. I simply let her spew and then I quietly asked her, "Who has brainwashed YOU! You used to be so level-headed and someone to look up to. Now I see you've become someone I don't even know, nor do I agree with your views. I would appreciate it if you would keep your hateful remarks to yourself because prefer to have only positive people in my life."

    This woman claims to be very religious! I must not understand the reasoning behind this deluge of hatred toward a political party other than hers. I just have to tell her I'm absolutely not in agreement and she doesn't need to contact me if she's got more garbage like that to share.

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  • 1 decade ago

    your aunt (no offense)sound a little Dramatic to start with,comparing anyone to Hitler is silly to begin with ,he was in a Horrible class by himself,second i wouldn't do anything else for it may inflame the situation even more.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

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  • 1 decade ago

    Yes you over reacted to the chain mail (although I totally agree with your sentiments!) I see no reason to demand a signed written apology, especially since it was chain mail to begin with. I would have told her I found the email offensive and ask her to refrain from sending me such drivel, but to ban her from the house was not necessary.

    Write her back, apologize for overreacting and tell her your thoughts.

  • Daisy
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    You may have over-reacted a little. I agree that sending political e-mails are annoying. I mostly delete them without reading them.

    You can tell her not to forward any more messages like that to you, or simply block her from your e-mail.

  • 1 decade ago

    I would be pist off too if I were you. If this was a friend, I would stop hanging out with them. But since she's your aunt, I would just let it go.

  • I think most people would recognize that she is way out of line. I would leave it at that and ignore the e-mail.

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