He stopped talking to me and now he wants back in...?

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So a few months ago I went to work with my parents, while I was there I happened to see a boy(18) I thought he was cute and I flirted from away. After that I(17) figured I wouldn't see him anymore I rarely go to my parents company due school and work. A few weeks later my mom asked me what had I said to him and I found out that he was interested in getting to know me. So I told my mom to give him my e-mail address.  A few days later he messaged me on myspace, I got his number and we started talking, we became close and thing got rolling. He told me he had gotten out of a 2 year relationship 8 months earlier so he liked me. I left for 2 weeks and went to mexico, I couldn't talk to him while there. So I came back and he text me and we talked once, I figured he wasn't interested once he started using the Im really busy excuse. Or Ill call you in a bit and nothing, now and entire month and a half has passed by and my mom sees him at work all the time, today he text me saying happy late b-day and he was sorry that he hasn't been able to talk to me and that every time he thinks of me he wants to txt me but when he gets home he forgets, or gets busy but that hed like to explain things to me if Id give him the chance.What should I do and say to him, we had something going and he dropped it should I pick it back up or leave it.

bebeshanibabe · Accepted Answer

It really depends on what you are looking for. If he's just a good friend you want pick it back up. If you are looking for more... leave it.  Don't waste your time on a guy "who gets busy or just forgets to call."  You deserve someone who wants to hear your voice everyday.

Munnag · Answer

I understand your situation, you both are too young to carry relationship burden but i must say that you can't drop it just becuz he is busy or perhaps he is just pretending to be busy. what ever it takes you need to give enough time and chances for your relationship before you break it, it would be a mistake if later you found out that he hasn't done anything intentionally!!  

you should meet him and talk to him about this, and ask reasons for his sudden change, try to know his mind and move along with it, if he doesn't want to continue with you, tell him that he can be honest and he doesn't have to do all this, if he is not interested, it is easy for you to move on instead of moving along with imaginary thoughts!!

please do remember one thing, if your releation ship breaks once it will not fix, so think twice before make a decision and give him enough chances to know you better and take as many as changes to know him better

Good luck, Munnag

Anonymous · Answer

Definitly Leave it. Never put in more than the other partner does. It should be equal. If the person is "to busy" or "forgot" then they do not honestly think about you. People love having rebounds, and if he just got out of a relationship like that, then that's where he's heading, for a rebound.

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