how to make him love me?

be less available to him - but not mean about it... men want what they cannot have and if you are real with your feelings too soon (or anytime after he says he does not love you) then you come across as needy and men hate needy women.. be strong and independent and confident -- thats the only thing that will turn this around...

in the meantime - date other guys... just dont put out...

you will get a lot of respect and you will be the one they chase...

stop cutting - its gross and shows mental issues - and no guy wants to deal with that for any length of time.

@AstuteWoman

Your little games are what's wrong with women today

guess what that may have worked in the 50's

but when a guy likes you and you don't show any interest just to get him fawning over/chasing you, A. he's desperate. B. Your an @sshole.

Considering there are 3 billion other women on the planet, YOU LOSE

Young lady, the best way to get a man is to set him free. Try to look like as if you are ignoring him .Then make yourself look pretty .Do it for yourself too .Meet others.Let him chase you.Make him suffer a bit so he will value you. If this does not work then look for someone else. I am pretty sure he's replaceable.

If hes

having other gf and doesn't wanna be with you let it go

don't cut yourself over him.

to be honest if I were younger i'd be a little uncomfortable to know that a chick or guy cut them self cause of me most likely.

You can never 'make' anyone love you. Plain and simple.