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Is it itme to move in?

I am 18 years old and i have a wonderful boyfriend... I am going through a lot with my family and i have been crying a lot lately... i have considered moving in with him.... but idk because am scared something will happen. what should i do

Update:

it has been 3 months sence we been together but we known each other for about 6 years... and he is my best fiend i am debating moving with him to his place because there is no room where i live i have a job and can pay half the bills is it a good idea for a 18 year old. he is 23

Update 2:

We got engaged!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I was once a scared 18 year old too with the same question in my mind. Well I did it and it didn't turn out so well, I AM NOT SAYING IT COULDN'T FOR YOU!! All I am saying is how long have you two been together and how long have you known each other? Those are two very big things you need to really think about, How well do you know him? Are you able to support yourself or at least pay half the bills? Just in case anything were to happen to the two of you? If you would break up would you still be able to stay there? Or would he expect you out right away? After you figure out those answers to my questions, its all about your heart. What does it tell? Remember that everyone sometimes makes mistakes and that is how we grow and learn. Good luck with your decision..

  • 1 decade ago

    Don't move in with him!!! I moved in with my now ex boyfriend, and we are sharing a one bedroom apartment, and all he does is threaten to kick me out. I have problems with my family too, and I have no where else to go right now. I don't have really any friends. I quit my job for my ex, and now I'm screwed. You will regret moving in with him. I know you guys probably won't last forever, because I thought my ex and I would have. We date for 3 years, and now look, we are no longer together, and yet we live together. It's miserable, don't do it!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    You shouldn't move in with him!!

    what if you get into a big fight with him or break up with him.. where will you go ??

    Yeah you can go to your friends but there not gonna out up with you or long!!.

    You should fix things with your family ever family has their Ups And Downs...

    You don't run away from problems, You stay and fix them or wait them out if your really helpless.

    Source(s): me
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