Yahoo Answers is shutting down on May 4th, 2021 (Eastern Time) and beginning April 20th, 2021 (Eastern Time) the Yahoo Answers website will be in read-only mode. There will be no changes to other Yahoo properties or services, or your Yahoo account. You can find more information about the Yahoo Answers shutdown and how to download your data on this help page.

should i keep to talking to him even tho i am trying to move on ?

I use to like this guy. I am not really sure that i am totally over him. He have a gf and he loves her. I used to talk to him every day for hours but not i can stay days not talking to him. I deleted his cell phone and the min he text, i respond to him right away. i mean i can stay days not talking to him but when he calls or text, i can't help but reply. How can i be strong and not reply? I think i am kinda over him now.i want to be just friends but the problem is he knows that i like him.plus he is flirt a lot. so should i talk to him when he text or call or ignore him and tell him to stay away from me ? plus he left his shirt over at my house and i want him to take it. so what should i do ? please no mean comment. i am trying to move on. i like to keep him as a friend.

1 Answer

Relevance
  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Honey, you can't have your cake and eat it too. If you really want to move on, you need to stop all communication with him. Even if he leaves "emergency" voice/text messages (my dog died, I think I have cancer, etc.), ignore it. Once he realizes you are done with him, he might try to guilt trip or manipulate you by any means possible. If you call him back to find out what's going on, you will play right into his hands. Don't tell him to stay away; that's your job. I know you want him as a friend, but he isn't being a friend right now. He is using you. Be strong, send his shirt to goodwill, and forget about him.

Still have questions? Get your answers by asking now.