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how to treat people with Autism?
I have an awesome relationship (friendship) with this girl, but we both hope to be closer later on (as in boyfriend/girlfriend). It's a long story, but my question is she has a brother who has autism, and she has told people that how people treat her brother reflects on how she treats them. I don't have anything against people with disabilities, but I find myself not being more compassionate to people with disabilities . I don't have any problems with people who have disabilities, but I just want some tips on what to do/not do. thanks.
4 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Treat with respect and love. Encourage them to be proud of who they are, and not what they aren't.
I am Autistic myself, and I am proud of who I am. I don't fit in, I am who I am.
I wish you luck:)
You seem like a good friend:)
- Heidi NLv 51 decade ago
I think what she is referring to, is that she doesn't want people to get angry with him, criticize him, etc. Thus, if he is more difficult to communicate with, then understand that it is due to a biological problem. Most with autism have difficulty with abstract thoughts, needing things to be in black and white. They may not get jokes or concepts. Like if I say "do you know what I mean?" They may not reply the gist of what I am saying. They would more likely repeat what I am saying. But, there is a range of symptoms. There are many variances. I think it's best to just be friendly, and then kind of observe to see what he is like, so you will know how to communicate with him. Some don't talk and some are difficult to tell apart from those without autism. Some common things you might see are anxiety and easily frustrated.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Treat her brother as you would anyone without autism. Try to understand his limitations but at the same time, don't act as if he doesn't understand you. He does. He just cannot express himself the way most people do. She is probably expecting you to pay more attention to him.
- mike dLv 41 decade ago
Just treat them like everybody else.
Our daughter is a special ed major,she always tells people to treat them like normal adults.
Hope this helps you out.