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my girlfriend said we need a break!!!! 10 pts BEST ANSWER!!!!?
what does this mean when my girlfriend i have been dating for 2 years now wants a break after a huge argument. and when i call she acts annoyed. but when i need to go or w/e she will not let me go and drag on the convo. and now she says she wants a break til april. is this a head game? her mom and dad even said before i started dating her she does things to piss people off. does she mean what she says or is it a head game!??? please help!
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- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
If it is after a big fight then it is so that she can cool down. Send her one text at the beginning saying something nice...like "I hope you are OK" nothing too lovey dovey.
If it was not after a big fight and came randomly then she is a whore that wants an excuse to f*ck around. You deserve better (this is what happened to me).
- 1 decade ago
Just be patient.
that is messed up that she said until April.
Wow..shes timing that...
She's pretty much done with you and she most likely is calling it quits without calling it quits.. sneaky. Two years, she doesn't want to break your heart. But she is most likely going to look around and if she doesn't like what she finds, then she will know you are the one.. but that's like leaving you hangin'.
I don't know man. I think you deserve better. Just because you we together, doesn't mean it was meant to be. Just be prepared for heartbreak and for a seriously commited relationship. It will turn out to be a very hot situation or a very cold situation. Most likely there will not be an easy way out.. unless you do let her go off an do whatever and you not worry about it, BUT that will effect your future by her possibly doing things like that again.
Hope i helped.
:)
- 1 decade ago
she's the only one who knows what's going on in her head and it doesn't seem like she's going to tell you right now. give her some space for now. Don't call or text her except for the occasional important thing. and i mean IMPORTANT. she needs time to figure out what she wants. she's obviously angry and upset about the argument. it might be best if you reflect on why she would be so angry.
if you really want to talk to her about it i would suggest writing her a letter but DON'T SEND IT! wait about a week and then read it over again. if you still think it expresses all the things you need her to know then send it and wait for her to come to you.
but most of all, all you can do is give her some space.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
If her parents have said she has done this before then you have been warned. Leave & find someone nice. She has to learn that you just can't play with peoples feelings like that. Seems she thinks more of herself than you. What goes around comes around. One day she will be made to feel how you are feeling now.
If she wants a break make it permanent. You are worth more.
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- 1 decade ago
we need a break - i dont want to be with you nomore.
i've heard it a million and one times before and tbh this is what it means. harsh but true.
and till april.. that is a long time! you probably will be over her by then and i suggest you start trying to get over her now as from them till now she will probably be flirting with other guys.. that's really what a 'break' is for. ask her straight up if she wants to be with you anymore and if she still says she 'needs a break' .. act like your not bothered at all, be totally fine with it and dont flirt with her.. just act like the two of you are friends.
good luck.
- . . .Lv 61 decade ago
Give her time to cool off man. No need in driving yourself crazy with what if scenarios. Give her a few days and play it cool and you two will be able to work something out.
- 1 decade ago
Maybe she is trying to see if you will fight for her. Maybe she wants an apology and she thinks you'll give her one if she threatens to bail. Or maybe she's just not into you anymore and wants to piss you off so that you'll break up with her.
- 1 decade ago
sorry to break the news but saying we may need a break means lets break up
- 1 decade ago
i cant beleve someone sets up a breaks up date til, dude just by what u tld me i coud tel shess so not worth it my advice is to MOVE ON!
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Dude, she just wants to hook up with another guy. APRIL? seriously? your THAT stupid?