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husband problems,i think he might be obssed with a girl, what do you think?

there is this girl that i went to high school with and she is smoking hot i know this, but my husband has been google'n her a few time in the last few months and im 98% that he is pleasuring him self to her sexy pictures, im very hurt and angry about this hole this and i really don't know what to do...

Update:

dear caca milis , i dont like this girl at all so i cant really say i talked to her, he lookes at porn and you know i came to peace with that, but this is just it.... and i dont know how to handel it.

Update 2:

he is 33, im 19 and she is my age...

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Hi Ms happy. What I would do is casually throw her name into a conversation... 'I saw x in the supermarket today, we had a chat' or something like that. How does he react? Guilty, sheepish looks or no reaction? This might help you confirm your suspicions.

    If I had these doubts about my husband, I would confront him. I wouldn't go in all guns blazing- calmly ask him about what you saw on the computer and what is going on?

    You must be worried sick. A lot of men look at porn on the internet but I'd say it's worse when it's pictures of someone you know.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Maybe he had a huge crush on her and now just wants to know what she's up to. Unless he was trying to contact her I don't think you have a problem.

  • 1 decade ago

    He's merely using a search engine a few times to look at her.

    How does this imply he's obsessed with her? It doesn't. And it seems like a minor issue, anyway.

  • 1 decade ago

    Hes probably cheating. I hope not but this is just wierd. I see exactly why your upset i would be too.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    would you rather he pleasured himself with her or something? my god lady, its only a picture... why dont you put out more?

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