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Should I feel like a loser?
So here's the story. I have been seeing this guy for a couple of years. We had some problems with his attitude toward my kids, so have been on the outs for the past couple of weeks. We talked on Thursday and I said he had to decide what he was going to do, because we could not go on with him acting like he does with my kids. On Saturday he called and asked me to meet him for a beer at a restuarant at 5:00, so we could talk - I told him 6:00 was better because it was Homecoming for my son. We have a beer, never talk, and leave at 8:30. He doesn't follow me home - just walks me out the car and tells me he loves me.
I think of something funny on the way home, so I called to tell him, and I hear all this noise in the background. I ask him where he is - says he's at the bar watching the college football game - I say, oh, never mind (to my funny story) and say goodbye.
So the question is - would you feel like a loser if someone did that to you and it's now 8:45 on a Saturday and you're home alone and he's out at the bar?
Edit - Okay - He doesn't treat my kids like crap - He just seems to think that I want to hear his opinion when they're misbehaving - A situation that I am WAY tired of - Certainly I know when the kids are being a pain! I don't need to hear it from him about how bad they are. But he doesn't do anything to them, it's just his comments/attitudes towards ME about THEM. KWIM?
6 Answers
- ?Lv 61 decade agoFavorite Answer
No,i wouldn't feel like like loser.I think you need to move on and find man who will respect you and love you.
Source(s): X - ?Lv 71 decade ago
No, I wouldn't feel like a loser, but I would definately move on. He doesn't sound like the 'keeper' type. Don't continue to waste your time... The attitude toward your kids should've given you a heads up long ago,
- 1 decade ago
no, you are not a loser. you need to think better about yourself just like your children think of you as the best mom on earth.
he didn't feel like talking. which is odd. because I would like to know why he is not treating your kids right. your kids mean the world to you, why would you want to be with a man who has an attitude about them?
- Anonymous1 decade ago
He will never like your kids. I suggest you stop dating. It is not fair to your kids that you have a guy who is not the daddy treating them like crap.
So to answer your question, yes, you should feel like a loser. Not because you are at home on a SAT. night, but because you are with men who treat your kids like crap.
- olderwiser100aLv 71 decade ago
seems to me that he is the loser, not you. he is sitting in some bar with the guys. not a whole lot of fun in that when he could have been with you.
