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How long into a relationship before I should offer to pay? (mostly guys)?

I just started a relationship with a guy I know and we've been out twice. Its going very well but I just want to know what the ettiquette is for paying for dinner, movies, etc.. After how many dates should I offer to pay?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Most guys that can afford it will prefer paying most of the time...it's sort of an ego thing. We like to take care of the girls in our life. But if you feel comfortable paying it's not a bad thing to offer once in a while.

    The guy will know that you really do like him and aren't just after his money...good luck.

  • MrsRed
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    I say after two or three dates, you should start offereing to pay. You should even make the plans and not let him do all the work.

  • 1 decade ago

    Well i usually pay the first time...But men usually always pay... its ok to offer some of the times but 9times out of 10 they usually do...Also if he is asking to go to these places i would feel he is willing to pay...If its your choice maybe you should ...Hope that helps..Good luck

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