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? asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

How am i suppose to react to this?

I'm good (real good) friends with a girl. We both care about one another. Yet I seem closer to her heart than she is to mine. I told her about that and, well it just turned into an argument.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Well, You might just cool your jets for a bit.She is probably stung by your observation.

    If you feel like this, there is a good chance your intuition is on the right track.

    She can't conjure up feelings that she doesn't have .

    There is almost always someone who gives the most and someone who takes in a relationship.

    She may have been brought up to think she is the center of the universe and expect that you will worship her like her folks did.You may need a different girlfriend.

    It's hard to break those patterns.

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    Tell your friend you are sorry if you hurt her feelings . You weren't trying to offend her but you wondered about the depth of her feelings for you.

    Then let it drop.

    Decide what you want from a girlfriend and look for it . If your girl is mostly that and you are happy with things as they are , keep her around. If you think she is treating you badly and she won't change , you just may need to look around and stop the romantic part of your relationship. Maybe you could remain friends?

  • 1 decade ago

    Hmm I've had a similar experience myself, but it turned out my 'friend' hated me XD It's probably not the case for you. Maybe last time she got too close to someone it turned bad? Some kind of bad experience? Apologise for arguing then give her a little more space ^^ Maybe you offended her?

    Source(s): Experience :P
  • 1 decade ago

    ive been in a situation like dis and i never told him

    about it but he finally figured it out on his own

    and we ended up being in a relationship for 3 years

    but in the end when we broke up and it ruined our friendship

    and we haven't talked since the day we broke up

    so i suggest if u want to be frands wit her u juss continue to

    act like nothing happened and move on

  • 1 decade ago

    Man if you like her tell her dont hold back i have also lost a good girl to this and if she dosnt like you like that stay friends you never no things might grow but ill tell you one thing dont push it on her

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  • I would just talk to her again. But do not GET ANGERY. At all. Stay calm. Just ask her s few questions, and if she gets mad about those few, reasonable questions, well.....you might have a few issues to work out.

  • 1 decade ago

    Act really awesome. Then play it cool and act like u dont like her. Some girls aka me like things plain hard to get. I hope i halped.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Make up and move on.

    And whatever you do, don't assume anything.

    Assuming always leads to bad things.

  • Faye.
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Say sorry and act as if nothing happened.

  • 1 decade ago

    aw.....poor u............you should react like she likes u. she may want to hide it but u should go 4 it dude. Good luck

  • 1 decade ago

    wait what are you asking?

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