what do i do?? i nvr done it....?

Just because he wants to kiss you, doesn't mean you have to kiss him. Find someone you're actually comfortable with. For your first kiss, you shouldn't worry so much about getting it over with. You should feel relaxed and safe.

First of all, you don't pucker your lips when you kiss. Puckering lips are far too firm and they don't feel good to kiss. People like to kiss soft pouty lips. So rather than puckering, try pouting your lips. If you don't know what I mean, try relaxing your top lip and gently extending your lower lip, while turning the corner of your mouth upwards. Another method, is to smile when you kiss. Smiling relaxes your lips and makes them soft to kiss.

For a first kiss, don't worry at all about tongue. Just concentrate on matching your lips to his. You will also want to tilt your head so that you don't bump noses. If you lean forward and then stop, he'll also lean forward and will come to you. I'd say close the distance between you two about 2/3rds of the way and let him come the other 1/3rd of the way to you.

Apply either a lip gloss or lick your lips before the kiss. Its best to have soft, most lips, and lips that shimmer with moisture will be appealing. Make sure your breath smells good. Avoid gum and maybe get some of those breath strips that quickly dissolve, so that you always have nice smelling breath.

Avoid wearing strong perfumes or body sprays. Those tend to be alcohol based, and they taste really nasty. Its possible he may kiss your neck, and you don't want him licking your perfume or body spray. He wont like the taste. Likewise, avoid a lot of make-up because it may smear, and it may also taste bad.

Your nostrils may swell when aroused, and since your mouth will be busy, you may find it difficult to breathe. Take a deep breath before you kiss and try to breath through your nose. If you find it difficult to breathe, then try kissing his cheek or neck and that will give you an opportunity to take a breath. He'll also be able to take a breath. Another method, is to cradle his face in your hands, and stare into his eyes, and then return to kissing, or to give him a tight hug and put your head on his shoulder. Any of those methods are romantic, but also a great way to catch your breath.

Remember to smile. :-) Not only will smiling relax your mouth, but you'll make them smile and it'll be easier to enjoy the experience. Don't take it so seriously. You're unlikely to mess-up. You're probably your own worst critic. Never apologies for a kiss, even if you think you did it wrong. Chances are, he'll think you did great.

If you do eventually decide to French kiss, only use the tip of your tongue. You don't want to feel as though you're invading someone's mouth with a serpent. Choking and gagging on someone's tongue, is a real mood killer. No one wants to see their lover gasping for air and coughing, because you licked their tonsils. The tip of the tongue has tons of nerve endings in it, and the tip is what most people use. Anymore than that, and you also tend to drool a lot during kissing, and that's really unattractive. As long as you both only use the tips of your tongue, you should enjoy yourself.

The first time though, you probably wont be French kissing. It may not even last that long the first time you kiss, and that's alright. Short kisses build anticipation for the next kiss. He'll look forward to more and will desire you, if your first kiss is short. Some may call this being a tease, but its alluring.

As for your hands, you can place them around his waist, his back, his arms, hold hands, on his shoulder, run your fingers through his hair, or cradle his face in your hands. Because this is your first time, I'd keep your hands above the waist.

Make eye contact. If you lick or bite your lip, while making eye contact, you'll arouse him. Kissing is as much emotional and intellectual as it is physical. It can even be a spiritual experience, although that's highly unlikely with a first kiss. A wink, a flutter of your lashes, an arch in your eyebrow, a smile, a bitten lip, a licked lip, and an intense inhaling through your nose, while smiling and appearing wide eyed and aroused, will be appealing. Body language, especially facial gestures, are important before, during and after a kiss. Sometimes smiling, making eye contact and saying "hi" is enough too, when you're close to one another.

You can always practice in a mirror, and you can always practice kissing the inside of your arm. Chances are you'll do just fine your first time, as long as you feel comfortable with him and like one another.

Best of luck in life and love. :-)

for people who've on no account finished it, a French Kiss could be intimidating! purely the belief of touching your tongue to somebody else's tongue might look gross. if it particularly is the case, then it particularly is possibly you're no longer waiting to objective it. the main necessary element approximately French kissing, or any kind of kissing or touch with somebody else, is which you're feeling waiting to appreciate it. there's no longer something worse than being compelled into kissing. If it particularly is compelled you're no longer likely to appreciate it - so do no longer do it.

you mean you've never kissed your parents or siblings before?

because the first kiss should be like that..a peck. maybe a little longer but that's not hard to figure out how to do lol :)

start off slow, out your hands of his back/***/ or in his hair.

its not really hard just move your mouth up and down and move your tongue to the rythem, its hard to descibe but it will come naturally dont worry love :) x