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Dating a friend's ex?

Ok, My friend is married with her husband for 9 years now, she has 3 kids with another man that she was married to...they've been divorced for over 13 years..her ex-husband of 13 years has been flirting with me and asking me to go out with him..mind you we all work together, he got a hold of my cell number thru another co-worker and he texts me all day long.. the messed up part about it is that I'm feeling him.. he's handsome, older, stable, and veryu attractive and we have a lot in common.. I don't know what to do. My friend and I were good friends and have been for 2 years.. I spoke to him about it and he says that since she didn't raise the kids he has no consideration for her like she didint have for him..(she's a recovering addict) I dont know what to do.. any advice??

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  • 1 decade ago
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    i think that you step back. its ur friends first husband right? well dont do it because you never get over your first love let alone,the father of your kids. the children wouldnt like you very much seein that you datin their dad and that you friends with their mum. you will put your friendship with your friend and her kids in jeopardy. even tho uv only been friends with her for 2 years and they are divorced 4 13years,it still will hurt her. knowin that her friend,whom she trusted has gone 4 her ex husband and father of her kids. im young and my parents are divored for like 14years now,so if my mums friend had to go for my dad id proberly hate her livin guts. dont be silly and mess up ur friendship.

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