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I lost custody of my daughter when she was 1 1/2 years old.?
I lost her because I was 20 and had to move back in with my parents. The courts were ruling that I was an unstable parent and could probably not provide stable environment for her nor financially. I am with a wonderful guy now and we have been together for over 1 1/2 years and my daughter is in love with him. He has a wonderful job and house and he has no kids of his own, however we just had one 5 months ago. My daughter cries for me all the time when her dad picks her up and he won't let her stay with me. I am curious, if I take my ex husband back to court, would I have a better chance @ getting custody if I get married? He doesn't have a girlfriend and he has guys that come and pick her up with him and I fear for my daughters life with people coming and going. Should we get married to show that we are more stable then he is and that we can provide a loving family that is growing together with one another and not random people?
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- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
i dont think that you being married will show the court anything other than the fact you are married...anyone can get married, it is not a difficult thing to do...what I think would help you get custody is do things that show the courts you have made changes in your life and that you are a good parent...ie. parenting classes, counseling, work, or whatever else was named for you losing custody...I am a father of a 10 year old that i have not seen in 2 years, i once had sole custody of him when he was 2 years old she finally was able to get shared custody granted and 1 year later she dissapeared with him...so i figure if she could get custody back then anyone should be able to if they want to bad enough..just hang in there, keep trying,l she may cry and fuss when he takes her, but he is her parent also and deserves to be with her just like you do (unless of course hes harming her in any way). good parents support one another regardless of if they are married or not,,kid deserves both of you it is not their fault the 2 people in the world they love the most dont get along. good luck
