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Sneaking suspicion that my boyfriends is cheating. Am I crazy? Please help!?

Over a year ago my boyfriend texted a girl for like 5 straight hours. I made him show me his messaging records and it turned out that it only happened once. He also claims that a random girl at a concert kissed him... but I had to find out from someone else first in order for him to confess. So there is a history of shady behavior here...

Lately I've been having dreams that he's cheating on me. sometimes I get the feeling that there is something he's not telling me or hasn't told me about his past. What do I do about these feelings? I mean we live together, it'd be kinda difficult for him to sneak around but I just have this strange gut feeling that something is different.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    If you don't trust him your relationship will never last. If you don't trust yourself you will never be happy. If someone kissed him at a concert you should have asked if he kissed back. Looked at it from his scenario. If a random guy kissed you at a concert would you tell him knowing he would get upset. It meant nothing so why bring it up. Now if he did it intentionally and didn't tell you then I could see why there are trust issues. Emphases again on the importance of trust, without it you will be miserable.

  • 1 decade ago

    Well you could be up front about it and ask him, or you could stop being so intrusive and trust him.

    Would you leave him if he was cheating on you? The only way to know is to ask, and reading someones texting history is an invasion of privacy, which you do not have the right to. I'm sure at some point in you life you have felt really close to a friend and enjoyed talking to them, that doesn't mean you cheated.

    You are having these dreams because you are making yourself see what probably isn't there. Stop, you will sabotage the relationship and end it with your distrust.

  • 1 decade ago

    Maybe your dreams are God speaking to your heart. Do you not know how much you are worth? Do you think for some reason you are undeserving of real love?

    Let him go. Let him go...

    God can bring real love into your life. There is a man out there looking for a girl who he can treat like a queen. He cant find you if you are with mr. cheater-pants.

    Life is short, love yourself enough to let love in.

  • 1 decade ago

    if you have suspicions you need to find out asap and when a guy is cheating he makes it seem like that girl came on to him or he denies it or when he knows you know that they're cheating they're gonna admit it like your bf did saying that it was only once and they make it seem like its no big deal. but i would suggest that you find a private investigator or just follow him yourself and find out what hes up to because if he is cheating you're wasting your time

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Two words: Womens Intuition.

  • 1 decade ago

    i get that feeling sometimes that my bf is doing something we live together also and usually il check the internet and find porn which hes not allowed to do so if i were you id stick with your gut feeling and question him tell him you want the complete truth and watch him when hes talking to see if you can tell hes lying.

  • 1 decade ago

    yeah hes been cheating for a while

  • 1 decade ago

    why would you want to be with someone you cant even trust?

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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