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i cheated on my gf 3 months ago. we've been good an bad since then. what to i do now?
3 months ago i cheated on my gf/future wife! fully cheated.. and since then parts of the truth have been coming out gradually. we have been on a rollarcoaster of good days and bad days. when she thinks about it a lot, she doesnt want to be with me and jus wants a friendship.. but when days r good, we tlk about getting over this and getting married someday. now, yesterday all of the truth came out. every detail. we had a 3 way convo with my her, me and the girl i cheated with. she has now kicked me out of her life completely seems like. deleated me off of fbook, myspace, wont return calls/txts.. its bad. she is reallyy stubborn like me and doesnt forgive people easy..what should i do now in order to at least talk to her and eventually get her back? im up for anyything!
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- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
You might have to give her some time. Its hard for a female to think about her man having sex with someone else especially after you 2 were talking about marriage. That doesnt say much about you. I know you love her and yes things happen. We are all human after all right.
Maybe you should send her letters in the mail, flowers to her job and little things like that. Then ask her to go to dinner with you when she warms up to you. Just don give up or she will think you dont really care. And if you really want her back I wouldnt date anyone or hangout with females right now either,
Good luck
- looloo1122Lv 51 decade ago
How would you feel if she did the same thing? You CHEATED, omg! We women do not take that lightly. She is hurt and crushed. You were obviously NOT committed to the relationship. My advice would be to give her plenty of room to get over this. Could she ever trust you again? That's an answer only you can give. If you love her then you have to prove yourself to her. Give her time and space. In the future do not start some thing that you cannot be 100% committed to. Trust is a big issue. I wish you luck and if she did take you back, you would be the luckiest man on earth. So treat her right!
