if a black girl is dating a white guy and cheated on her?

I'm not sure, because everyone have their own reason(s) for cheating. I don't understand by what you mean by "force"? I mean to be with you and have kids by you, I'm sure race isn't the ONLY factor that made her cheat and cheat with a black man. You are leaving something out.

Edit>Okay I read the whole thing and have a better feel for it. I was in a similar situation once. It wasn't racially, it was culturally. I was in a relationship with a Kenyan. She only dated whites and other Kenyans, not African Americans. I came to find out that the guy who she told me was her cousin, was her ex. We didn't have kids, but she got pregnant by me, and wanted to get married. I didn't and she wound up aborting. I'm getting off topic, but wanted to let you know I kinda understand where you are coming from.

Here's the thing, I think she likes/love you but can't handle the stigmas and issues of interracial relationships. Its not you, its her. She isn't strong enough to fight/work for her love. She co-pt out and gave up, for whatever reasons. Then when she "caught" you, it seemed to her that you did the exact same thing. See when she was weak you supposed to get stronger. That's what she wanted. Even if you had to beg for her. It would have went a long way. Now it seems like you don't care and she wants to sex you to try and get you back. But it won't work if she hasn't corrected/addressed the issues that caused her to cheat in the 1st place. Its because of the added pressures of dating inter racially. I say let her prove and earn you love back, if you deem her worthy. Good luck!!!

LOL! Your question had me going in all kinds of directions dude. You worded it as though YOU were the one who cheated with the black guy, lol. Then I read a little more and understood what you were trying to say. You know a lot of us are not too obsessed with race. Would you feel better if it was a white guy she cheated on you with?

Your ex is a cuckoo. Not because of who she cheated with, but because she flipped out when you did. Doesn't matter the ethnicity of the guy she cheated with, it was just wrong. Maybe she was curious.

May I ask why you think a white woman would be too confusing for your mixed children? Are they confused by you? And finally...a lot of us know first hand about how much other people make race matter, doesn't mean you have to.

Edit - I'm with you Mr.T. We haven't heard the full story.

1st of all: Rocker,you are a bloody idiot!

Well,honestly...i know you don't want to hear it,but this is the truth,her race has NOTHING to do with it.She was probably just not happy with the relationship between the both of you and just happened to end up with a black guy.You seem terribly hurt.I am sorry about that.You just happened to end up with a woman who honestly,seems to be taking you for granted and treating you terribly and this woman happens to be black. I am African(black) and my boyfriend is Italian(white). Early in our relationship,we faced a lot of societal problems,but we overcame them and it made our relationship stronger.I love him so much and would never cheat on him.Unfortunately,you loved a woman that would cheat on you,it has nothing to do with her race.

PS-Move on..the children will get older and understand!

She cheated on you because she's promiscuous and ignorant not because you are white and she is black. Race has nothing to do with cheating, sex etc..

She seems unstable.

If you really want to know for certain ask her, not every black person/girl is the same so I can't explain her actions I don't cheat and I don't date outside of my race.

i hate to say this but you have to consider that maybe you were just a trohpy to her. "Ew i got a white man." some people are like that. this answer is probably gonna make people mad but thats the truth. so many people IR date because they just wanna get back at the opposite sex of their own race. bottom line she wants you back cuz she doen't want a white woman having anything to do with yalls biracial kids as well. good luck with all that. you're in for a hell of a ride

huh i don't get it a black girl is dating a white guy and cheated on HER with a black guy??????????

but no you wouldn't have to be with another black woman they wont be confused its about love...but my mom is mixed black my dad is asian they divorced and now my step mom is asian too ..im not confused i never really thought about what race i was till a few years ago ..but i do get alot of stares when im with my asian side :) i don't mind tho

Players like to play but don't want to be played.

And ignore the idiots, people are assholes thats why I can't stand them.

she cheated on you, it has nothing to do with the race

Im sure she is attracted to the guy that she had sex with.

as for you, i dont think you should take her back, SHE CHEATED ON YOU!!!!!

Date who you want to

You were wrong for bringing up race, so expect the lonely trolls to behave in that way. Their doing their job. lol

it doesnt matter about race. the point is that you should of broken up with her when she cheated, regardless of the guys race