How to get bf to move out and how to move on with life?

wow. at least you got a good laugh out of some of the answers! it depends on how the relationship goes. are you in love with him? do you guys get along? does he do his fair share?

there is nothing wrong with drinking as long as your a productive human being that can still function in life. is it the drinking with his friends and not spending time with you that bothers you? or is it the fact that he doesnt pay his "fair share". those two things are worlds apart. my boyfriend drinks like a fish with his friends every night.... but he also has an excellent, secure job, land, a new house, a new garage, and we are currently making plans to build an indoor. see the difference? its called ambition.

unfortunately, your bf sounds like an impressive bred untrainable horse. LOL.

set a deadline. give him one month to clean up his act. explain to him that his lifestyle is not compatible with yours, and that your not asking him to change his drinking habits, but he needs to get a job and pay some bills, and start spending more time with you. if he doesnt clean up his act, give him two weeks to move out. bring him boxes and help him pack. do not help him find places to live, then he can just blame it on you if it doesnt work out.

at the end of two weeks, put his stuff on the front steps and change your locks. and don't let him back in. your worth more then that. set goals for yourself to better yourself. try rescuing a horse in need, or setting a goal of building one more stall, or having one boarder. work to better yourself.

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i know what you mean about the no return calls and txts. sometimes guys just don't think like girls do. i've been with my bf for 2 years and last night was the first time he ever sent me a txt that said something incredibly nice.

be VERY realisitic when you are together. love has a way of ignoring the faults. pay particular attention to something he does that makes you crazy when you feel like your starting to love him again. is it really worth dealing with his annoying habits and your lonely life style? probably not. Mr. Right will show up. But first you have to get rid of mr. wrong, and focus on being independent.

Kick him out! ALL the way out have him move his stuff everything and then immediately take a vacation (far or close doesn't matter). Just get the hell outta the fire for as long as your life allows. During this time change your phone number, change your locks and find some cute boy to flirt with while you are out of town!

When you get back make sure there is NO reason for him to contact you (if he left ANYTHING at ALL behind ship it to him or his folks asap or get a mutual friend to give it to him) Then start keeping yourself busy with friends, dates, ANYTHING that will keep you from missing him and having a moment of weakness!

Hope it helps! Good Luck!

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The next time that you argue with him Just start screaming really loud and tearing up SH*T.....Tear up everything.Throw all his belongings out the door.Call his mama(guys hate that)

Throw some hot grits on him,if he gets physical.Change the locks.And if he tries to hit you then call the cops.If/when they ask you what happened just start crying uncontrollably,and tell them that your afraid of him.,and that you want him out.And if he has any sisters that want to instigate then I would have something "hot" for their a**es.Good Luck :)

You tell him that things are not working out and he needs to pack his things or you will.Then the next step is to be stronger and not let him back in.Change the locks and don't look back and you will be able to move on to better things in your life.

yeah, find him another girl who will be with him. if you don't like him tell him and give him some months to move out! you have to be careful who moves in with you nowadays. living together is hard work!

Change the locks and pack his stuff up and put it outside.

Generally, most men would get the hint.

pack his stuff set it outside

change the locks on all the doors

change your phone number

tell him its over and if he insists on trying to contact you,you'll get a restraining order.

who is paying all the bill and who's name is on the lease of the apartment just sit him down and talk to him about it