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GUYS: How do I ask for sex?

I dated a guy for a few months a few years ago and we're still friends and every once and a while we hang out or have phone sex. Its sorta on and off still is what I'm saying. The point is Ive been away from home at college and we've been talking again lately and when I come home I want to do the dirty.

How do I lure him into this?

Would it be weird if I like asked him through text before I came home?

Well Im asking what to specifically say or do to make him know I want it.

Also

If I do think I might have feelings for him, should I not have sex with him?

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Tell him you want to do him. He's a guy, he won't say no.

    Well, if you think your feelings are gonna make you make a big deal out of having sex with him, you probably shouldn't.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    this could be an excellent step to take - first % what style of risk-free practices you will use. Are you on the pill? have you ever the two been checked for STDs? Do you spot this as being an prolonged-term relationship? If issues flow incorrect and there's a toddler, are you the two going to be there to nurture it? start up by using having a severe talk with your boyfriend approximately the place your relationship is going, and notice intercourse in that context. each now and then no longer having intercourse till you're incredibly waiting is the ultimate thank you to coach your love and understand for another.

  • 1 decade ago

    Meet up for a date. When the time is right stare at him and keep glancing at his lips. He should kiss you. After the kiss say "Let's go back to your place".

    You should only have sex with those that YOU DO have feelings for, and I mean strong feelings. Sex is full of risks.

  • 1 decade ago

    if you want to have sex with him, i would wait, dont ask, thats just weird, wait until your alone, in a bedroom, then kiss him and so on

    if you want to lure him, just make a "sexy" comment like " wanta come back to my place for some fun" something like that just not cheezy lol

    if you have feelings for him then why are you asking if you shouldn't if you want to take things slow do it, if you come on too fast he will thing that all you want is sex and you dont care about him, just take it slow, hug>kiss>hold hands> move in> sex> marrage> kids etc something along those lines hope this helps best of luck

    Source(s): im a guy and i know what guys want
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  • 1 decade ago

    do what japanese women do. when he is in the car with you, find his johnson and squeeze it. that johnson should come to life immediately and he will not be able to control himself. wear a loose fitting skirt that flairs at the bottom. this way he can get his hand right up there.

    more than one ways to skin a cat.

    don't ask him, just squeeze the johnson. asking can be a turn off.

    be certain to have everything fresh and clean. you don't want to have him find a fish market down there.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Well if u want him bad then do what the animals do and present to him and if ur under 18 don't even bother asking for sex

    Source(s): for the girl below tht said "he is a guy, he wont say no" ummmm im a guy and if an ugly chick asked me for sex i would say no :D
  • 1 decade ago

    when you get home ask him if he wants to come over, rder a pizza, and watch a movie. make sure there's only one couch, or one loveseat in the area you're watching the movie. get a SCARY movie. turn off the lights while watching it. when the scary parts come, bury your face in your hands and put your head on his shoulder. hopefully he'll get the picture :) be really touchy feely with him. but be careful!!... for me, it resulted in a beautiful little boy... but also a wonderful husband and another son :)

  • 1 decade ago

    Seriously? This is an issue? Tell him you want to have sex and it will happen! You can't go wrong with a guy!

  • Mat
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Just text him.... phone me soon so we can talk about what we are going to each others bodies when we meet next time ;-)

  • so
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Dress sexy the next time you see him. Accidentally touch his crotch, then leave your hand there. It shouldn't be too tough.

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