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(GIRLS ANSWER PLEASE!) why cant girls tell you how they feel?
like I moved recently and all these girls from where i left started telling me how they had crushes on me and stuff and a few of the girls i actually liked and could see something going on between us but they decided not to inform me for whatever reason till after i moved. any reason why they do this?
20 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
it isn't just girls...guys do it as well..."ya snooze ya loose" they should of said something if they felt that way about you ...it's their loss...the same thing happened to me when I got engaged...all the guys from highschool that I had no idea liked me told me they always had a crush on me...now I don't know why they waited so long to say so but...it is what it is...as soon as they see you about to leave or possibly be w/ someone else they tell you they like you...it makes no sense it's just dumb lol.
- 1 decade ago
Because a lot of girls are just too shy to do so. We also seem to over think this stuff a lot, and never end up telling guys how we feel. A lot of the times girls are just not sure if they guy they like likes them back, so they don't want things to get awkward by asking someone out then getting rejected.
- 1 decade ago
I'm really not trying to make an excuse for these girls, but most girls I know, in some way want to be pursued. When a guy makes a first move, it shows us that there must be something there that attracts you to us. It's a big possibility these girls feel the same way. Hope this helped, sorry if it didn't
- StephLv 41 decade ago
1. Girls ALWAYS have trust issues we can never trust anyone unless we actually know them.
2. We are not just gonna tell any guy how we feel.
3. Sometimes guys DONT LISTEN so what is the point of wasting our precious time telling a guy how we feel.
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- 1 decade ago
a lot of girls dont tell a guy they have feelings for them because they have a fear of rejection. theyre scared of what you would say. and since you were moving,they felt it wouldnt matter since nothing would happen anyways.you would go your separate ways.
some girls are old fashioned and like the guys to make the first move.which might be another reason they didnt say anything.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I think its the classic saying that men have to make the first move. Men have to chase girls and girls have to play hard to get in order to keep the men interested.
I dont think that girls are not the only ones who cant tell how they feel. There are guys too. Its psychology. Humans are scared to get rejected by people so they tend to keep feelings inside until they are certain that the object of their affections like them back.
Personally, I dont like being rejected so I never tell anybody my real feelings.
- 1 decade ago
Because they're scared to. Because now they know that since you moved nothing will ever happen between you two until later on. So maybe they just liked you and they knew that they could see that you liked them too, but they didn't want anything to happen between the two of you. Now you know.
- ?Lv 41 decade ago
Sometimes girls are too nervous or shy. And when you moved, they just figured they might as well say it then because it was their last opportunity unless you were still keeping in contact with them.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I can't as I am not a very open person and am afraid of being judged. I'm more of the secretive type.
- 1 decade ago
K U BETTER LISTEN TO THIS!!! K im a girl and i kno y we cant tell u anything...its because we r scared we dont want it to be awkward in the future because well............. i will tell you <kay10105@yahoo.com> because there is to much too tell!!
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