hook-up turned potential relationship?

If you want this relationship to turn into something serious then stop having sex. You need to see if he really is as good of a friend as he seems to be. If he's willing to not have sex as long as he gets to spend time with you, then he really likes you. If he doesn't like the idea of not having sex; obviously that's all he sees you as, a fun little sex toy to pass the time. Especially an under-aged girl; you're the forbidden fruit, which means guys will want you more because it's naughty. Don't be that girl!

You don't want to turn into a prude all of a sudden either, or he's gonna think that you're a tease or lost interest. My advice is go ahead and show affection; kiss, hug, hold hands.

I strongly advise you not to get any more intimate than that, because the temptation will be become greater the more intimate you get. But if you do end up in a place you shouldn't be, just DO NOT take off your clothes. That's where you as a young "lady" should draw the line. Don't try to bend your rules either like wearing teeny tiny booty shorts or accessible skirts so a hand (or finger) can "accidentally" find its way into "unexplored territory." You should BOTH keep your hands outside your clothes.

Now let me warn you that if you do end up having sex, he may lose some interest in you. It's just the way us guys are wired, we have no control over it. So don't think because he tells you "it's not like that" that it's any different. He may seem sincere when he tells you that "you are different than the other girls," that "you are special."

It may be true for him and he really is not lying; he really believes from the bottom of his heart that what he's saying is true. In the end, we are still guys and we cannot control what happens afterwards. Which is "easy come, easy go."

The quicker he got you in bed, the sooner he'll be chasing the next "special girl." If a guy invests a lot a time in someone, it'll be a lot harder for him to leave.

I hope you take my advice because I hate to think that I gave out confidential "Guy Secrets" for nothing. Good Luck ;)

i could relatively prefer to make it easier to realize "specific, it ought to alter into an easily relationship" yet i will't do this. It looks like he likes you yet he's not attracted to a relationship immediately. could you be keen to tell your friends approximately hooking up? if so, you ought to ask your self why he needs to maintain it secret. Why does he prefer to conceal it? How do you realize he has no longer been seeing different females? additionally, i think if he became into quite fascinated he could make an effort to maintain in touch throughout the time of your month long iciness ruin. it quite is 2008 (virtually) and we've telephones, cellular telephones, e mail, etc. it quite is obtainable that the the two one in each of you have attached on account which you made your self obtainable for hooking up in simple terms and he did no longer experience there became into any tension to grant you extra beneficial than that. i think of which you ought to ask him if he's attracted to a relationship or if he needs to stay pals. the extra serious element he will say is not any and a minimum of that way you realize what the deal is and you may pass on. sturdy success. i'm hoping it works out for you.

the problem is that however far you went with him already, he is going to expect it to keep going like that or farther. if you want the relationship to continue you need to state what "base" you are comfortable going to ,and if he wants more than that and you aren't ready for it thn....... he might not be the kind of person that will handle that well. good luck and best wishes

youve already ran to third, now hes on third and he cant go back, so either he stays there for the rest of the game, or he runs it home

don't be easy