This is a pretty sensitive question...?

That's a really hard one to advise on as it is so personal to you.

But, i would say maybe look at your vibrator, and sex life as 2 different things, Your vibrator is something which can satisfy you quickly and well, with no ties, questions, hang ups or repercussions. However your relationship with your boyfriend is more than a piece of rubber and a couple of batteries. Look at your sex life with him as something more than just sex and separate the instant gratification of your vibe and him. That way, you will appreciate both, and the different relashionship that you have with both.

As for your relationship with him, i would 'give up' when you have either had your oats or had enough. If he doesnt like it, mearly state that sex is sex and it shouldn'tt be about who comes and who doesn't......couple weeks of this and he might start to appreciate how sex is a 2 way thing....

I know blokes who say that sex doesn't count unless they have 'shot their muck' (sorry, i know that is sooo crude) but i just say er, no i don't think so mate.

Either tell em you are perfectly happy so you are going to follow their lead and tap them on the arm and say 'thanks', cough, get up for a wee...roll over, OR - point out that legally sex has occurred the moment it goes in, and if they don't count it then they must be doing something very very wrong.......... then cup your bits and moan in pain about your 'blue' bits!!! - its NO different for him as it is you!!!

oh, and just a little tip for you - keep those vibrator batteries topped up - honestly, you wont notice as they run down, but the day you change them to new ones you really will!!! :)

x

I had this exact same problem. I overcame it by including my vibrator in my sex life. It was strange at first but now I'm glad I did it. It guaranteed satisfaction every time. Just make sure your boyfriend doesn't feel like he's being replaced by a machine :P

Seems like he isn't trying all that much. Why don't you talk to him about it? Why doesn't anyone on this website talk to their boyfriends about this stuff?

Can't you combine the two? Get a bit more imaginative.

a) get a new boyfriend

but if you are rlly have to

you could

b) have him use it on you

c) JuSt TaLk To HiM aBoUt It!

Get a new boyfriend.