can i have all of the text messages sent and received by my daughters phone recorded and sent to me with bill?

You can, but it is a major violation of privacy, I understand you are just trying to monitor and protect your daughter, but where are you going to draw then line. I know now that i have told you my honest opinion your not going to pick me best answer, because I am not agreeing with you. But this needs to be said. I am a teenage girl, and if my mother was reading all of my text messages it would make me feel like she didn't trust me and in turn I wouldn't trust her. If I thought that she thought I was making the wrong choices, then maybe I would give her a reason to think that. If you have done your best to raise your daughter, I mean your absolute best, you have supported her, you have met her needs emotionally, mentally, and physically, then you have done your job, and you need to let her live her life and not be intrusive. If you have given her the power to text then why are you taking away her power of privacy. She shouldn't be afraid that you are going to find out things, she should want to talk to you about things that are going on in her life, not have you do detective work to figure them out and then question her about them. Maybe there are circumstances that I don't know about, that may justify your decision. I hope you make the decision that is not only best for you are yourcuriosityy but also for your daughter and the relationshipp that you want with her.

Yeah, I'm pretty sure you can get them online or have them sent to you in the mail or something. I know it's possible, my friend's dad use to get her text messages all the time.

you can have the date time and who the message was sent to or recived form but there is no actual way to get the contents of the message other then the phone its self.

All texts are stored o the carrier's servers. All carriers make them available to the account holder. Call your carrier and find out how to get them.