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I need relationship help . . . paranoid personality disorder?
I don't want to stress out my boyfriend because of my paranoid personality disorder.
I find it so hard to trust him and I can't stop being so suspicious that he'll leave me for 2 of his friends who happen to have ruined my life.
I recently lost my best friend and its put more stress on him.
I love my boyfriend and I don't want to lose him, hurt him or stress him out.
How can I tell my boyfriend I don't want him to go to them instead of me?
Also, I know I can't control him.
Thanks.
2 Answers
- desecrated_saintLv 41 decade agoFavorite Answer
I'm afraid you might need professional help because of your "paranoid personality disorder". Are you consulting having psychotherapy w/ a shrink?
You see, you just have to understand that in our lives, we really cannot have everything that we want. It's good that you know you can't control him. So the best thing for you to do is to control your emotions. Because if you really love your bf, you must give him the freedom to choose what he wants.
True love is not selfish. It is giving without expecting anything in return. You just have to bear this thing in mind, my friend - always.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Maybe you just have a case of insecurity not a full fledged personality disorder. Do not repeatedly ask him where he was/what he was doing/who he was with/do you love me/what did they say about me. That is the biggest turn off for every guy-you will lose him if you allow your suspicions to run your life.
Source(s): I dumped a girl because of that very thing.