say nothing, or get revenge?

depends, do you want him back? if you try to get revenge you can pretty much guarantee that he will not come back to you. he chose his friend and pot over you, so getting revenge will just reassure him that he made the right decision to leave you. if you don't talk to him, he will begin to get lonely and realize what he has done. potheads don't usually think clearly if they are always getting high all the time, so maybe he just thinks that all he needs in life is to be with his friends and drugs. he will see how stupid that is and start to miss you. but not matter what you choose, the best revenge is to not speak to him; because when he comes crawling back to you, you can say "im sorry but you lost your chance". that will be the best revenge.

don't get revenge! parting amicably is the best way to part.

my parents are divorced, because my dad cheated on her, but she was smart enough to let it go and now they frequently (well, not THAT often, but good enough for me) visit each other and my dad comes over for dinner occasionally. (this is just an example of course)

especially since he's on pot, he probably isn't worth it anyway. if you get revenge, he'll just have more animosity towards you, and that's no way to let things end!

if things cool down and you ignore him fora few years, and IF he's not a complete ********, then maybe you guys might get back in the future (providing you still want to).

and if you DO want to get any revenge at all, the best way would be subtle revenge, aka find another guy to hang out with! =)

i think you should move on. this guy doesn't sound like he is good enough for revenge. unless you still have feelings for him then you could try talking to him and seeing if he is going through a really bad time. either way revenge probably isn't the best choice.

Move on in life. He is doing you a favor right now. Dealing with addicts of any form in your life can suck you energy away on so many levels. The perfect revenge is just to remember you will be going places with you life, all the while he is living in his mothers basement, hanging out, and puffing on the bong, GOING NOWHERE.

Swap his pot with oregano. It'll make him crazy.

say nothing.

revenge is for kids