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Girl I like trying to make me jealous?
I got mad at the girl I like for talking to random guys everyday at school excessively even when she already told me that she likes me. So I told her and she was like "I'm not a shy girl I like to talk to other people too". The next day at school I ignored her completely, she passed in front of me, I looked at her in the eyes and didn't say a word not even hi. An hour later, she sends me a message saying that she didn't see me at school today, where was I? So I reply, with "I was there". It was cold and rude, I know but that was my point. Then she kept talking casually for the 2 days until she kind of made me feel that I was wrong for doubting her. So I start talking to her normally again and guess what? She goes back to her old habits of talking to other guys constantly! I know she's trying to make me jealous, and it's her way of getting revenge for doubting her. Now, I send her a message saying: "We need to talk.", she replies with: "Go online in 30 minutes x".
So yea, what should I tell her? What should we talk about? Btw, it's been a month since we started liking each other
9 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I think, before you go on making your claim to be exclusive, you should go out with her a bit more... It sucks that you have competition, but a girl's entitled to choices, and so are you.
Before bringing down the ultimatum, actually date her and make sure she's not just messing with you. Plus, she's a normal girl, and is bound to have other male friends too. It sounds like this is your first relationship, so my advice would be don't get too caught up in this kind of stuff. Give her space, what's yours will be yours.
As for your conversations, don't mention anything about the guy or her trying to make you jealous. Just tell her you feel like you haven't talked in a while, and go on with a normal conversation. Don't have serious talks, or tear your heart out with a touchy confession... You're not even technically in a relationship yet, don't ruin what's potentially there by rushing it.
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And oh, whatever you do, DON'T try to get back at her by talking to other girls. That's just immature and dumb. Girl's dig maturity and charm.
- Anonymous4 years ago
Why do females attempt to make adult men jealous? Whats with the truly widely used questions? truly, if a guy is making an attempt to make you jealous greater effective than in all danger you probably did some thing that harm him and he's immature so he's making an attempt to come back at you. Getting revenge helps them recover from the heartbreak i assume. purely like each and every thing else in relationships inspite of the undeniable fact that, this one is going the two procedures.
- 1 decade ago
What an annoying girl.
Looks aren't all that matter, it's the personality.
But I have to say, most girls in love try to make the guy they like jealous to find our if they like them or not. Or to add more drama into their love life. :3
Why don't you retaliate, talk to some girls. Don't get to know them, though if you're really in love with this girl. Seriously.
- DaveLv 51 decade ago
You have jealousy issues. You're not even dating her and you get upset when she talks to other guys?!? Dude, you are going to scare her off completely if you try to prevent her from being social. It sounds like you can get the girl if you stop being overly jealous and play it confident and cool.
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
she likes you as a friend. she is not ready to date and say you are the one she will spend the rest of her life with and every time you date you are saying 'i'm considering you for a life partner".
she is outgoing and you are not, maybe it's not a a good match if you don't have confidence to let that go. is she flirting with them ? there is a difference you know.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Dude you are wasting your time, go find a different girl she sounds like a bit3h who could totally mess with you everyday.
- Twilight FanLv 61 decade ago
Tell her that it makes you mad when she keeps trying to make you jealous. Tell her that if she doesn't stop, then she can find another guy to like.
- Prime CutsLv 41 decade ago
You do not need "to talk". You have no hold on her and are off base thinking you had anything to say about who she talks to or when. Be nice/cool but do not waste time waiting on her. Meantime, hit on anything that moves.
- 1 decade ago
tell her how you fell just keep it all the way real. like we say honesty best policy.