If your boyfriend/girlfriend refused to add you as Facebook friend, Would you break up?

hmm... although odd, i guess maybe he wants to avoid the drama of facebook... but i do admit... that sounds a little fishy... id confront him about it first before breaking up...

I dunno about breaking up with him. But you could do a bit of research.

Do you have a friend that he doesn't know you have? For example a hot girlfriend that you trust? Maybe you could ask her to become friends with him, and then that way you can see what he is doing.

I personally don't believe he should keep face book a secret from you. He might as well just go out with people you don't even know and not come home till all hours.

If my hubby did this to me, i would definitely be very suspicious.

look girl i can tell you right now that the first thing you should have done its to talk to him and asked how come he dont wanted you as hes online friend, but he does have you as a long life partner who he has a family with, then after his answer then you see what he tries to come up with .i have to say that as my own experience i found out that my bf also had a social page profile not facebook but similar to it, and when i saw everything he had n ther girl i wanted to kill him cuz we also have a child, and then i talk to him about this secret profile page and he just said that he like it to flirt and **** so i destroyed his laptop. now he is living in 2 days out of my house so i am trying to say that yes yo might have taken the right decision.

It kinda sounds like he is a little embarrassed of you. Because maybe he doesnt want to add you because he is afraid that his friends will see, and I know that my friends always find the flaws with whomever im with, and they call me out on it, so maybe he is just trying to avoid that.

call the house with your cell, but put your hand over the speaker when hes logged on, and once he goes to answer it go on and see what hes up to! youll only have about a minute to work, but it's better than nothing.

seriously i can not tell

6 years such a long time. but why that one refused to add you on fb, i wonder? if that one love you, they must share

Kids change things. You have to do what's best for them.

But if no kids were involved, yes. I would break up with him (or her).

ummm no i wouldnt