overall advice,relationship advice,feeling low...help me out a bit?

Hi. I know how you feel. Except I'm a girl. It's hard for guys to notice me.. especially since I was so used to them not noticing me when I was overweight. What's important is that you are a better person. I know it's hard. And you do feel lonely. Try to be more outgoing. Approach girls. Just talk and flirt, don't be too aggressive. I hope that helps. You can message me if you wanna talk some more.

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go the step further and get hotter so those women want to be around you and are more attracted to you.Do some sit ups , start with ten , a day then go up to 30. and you can do them any where.

You ve lost the weight but you have to keep training and going to the gym, running and the beach! when you go in the water it makes you feel so good and alive , and it gives you a really soft glow( ever notice how hot surfers are .they have some thing you know)

borrow or hire a small fluffy dog !!women love it and will come up to you .got any auntie that has a dog? no not your cousin the animal I mean...

more ideas are clothes! something abit trendy women love fashion

Well if you are not motivated , you are not a millionaire that can afford a personal life coach .

the reality is that you have to be your own hero ,

you have to find the strength withinn and stop feeling hopeless

fake it to make it mate! that is the truth , if you feel low then go on line and see the millions of children in africa and asia that are being trafficed as human slaves and sex workers and realise how lucky you are and give them a donation to one of the organisations that are helping them...

In no particular order, The Doors Pink Floyd Jimi Hendrix Led Zeppelin Red Hot Chili Peppers Nirvana The Stooges / Iggy Pop Air The Velvet Underground / Lou Reed Frank Zappa OR Leonard Cohen Ok, there are ten, and I find it quite difficult narrowing it down to ten, and especially if I'm trying to showcase my overall music taste, because most of the above are classic rock, but I suppose, the inclusion of other genres, [grunge, funk-rock, art rock/avant garde, electronica, punk, prog], it does shed some light on my overall music taste. Although, there are so many artists from different genres I love, not included in the above, so no, it doesn't give the best overall scope of my music. I like some metal, blues, glam rock, etc. but it's a pretty good indication. Bonus: Moby [Electronica & rock] Red Hot Chili Peppers [Funk & rock]

Study groups man, start out using group dynamic to break into social situations.

Work out a little in the privacy of your own place to drop a little weight before you venture out if u think itll help your confidence, just do 20 situps every morning, maybe walk to school instead of driving if youre close by.

Youre 21, things will only get better, go a lot of life ahead of you

you've still got the mentality of your overweight image just tell yourself 'im a catch' don't go crazy hunting for someone if you see a girl you like strike up a friendly chat.

aw try not to feel so lonely!! everyone finds there love at sometime.. sometimes it just takes longer than others! but dont be discouraged! just go out & have fun with the friends you have & everything will fall into place! :)

After coming this far, don't give up now.

There are many girls out there. Happy hunting.

Use eharmony or something like that if you have to.

Find someone with the same interests as you

go to some parties

join a club...tons of chicks