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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time and he didnt know if i was a virgin because i didnt bleed?

we had been together before but not all the way he would touch me and i would touch him but that was it until last weekend we had sex and he didn't know if i was really a virgin or if i had lied because i didn't bleed but truly i was a virgin he told me that the last time he was touching me he felt like a little ball and he didn't do nothing then the next time after i came back from a trip i didn't had it and then when we had our first time well i didn't bleed. but honestly i had never been with any guy before in my life! any idea why i didn't bleed?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    A little ball? I dont know what he means like that. But anyways loosing ur virginity is different for everyone. For example for me, I was in SOOO much pain and I bleed so much that it wouldnt stop for like 2 days. On the other hand my best friend said she didnt bleed nor even feel it go in! Haha in fact she told him when he went all the way "Oh, it's in?" Rofl. Just tell him everyone's different.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I did not bleed either the first time that my husband and I did it. I was a virgine as well. Not everyone bleeds the first time that is a myth. I actually did not bleed untill the 2nd or 3rd time we had sex.

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    5 years ago

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  • 1 decade ago

    Not everybody bleeds i didnt and never have yet i have had sex 3 times and havnt bleed you can break your hyrem when doing sport or if you wear a tampon you could of broke your hyrem then but if he doesnt trust you you shouldnt be having sex tbqh xxxx

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  • 1 decade ago

    you two obviously werent ready for sex. he sounds ridiculous and you should know why this happened. first off guys cant feel if a girl is a virgin or not. and not all girls bleed when they are virgins. i didnt. plus if he doesnt believe you or trust you, you two have no business having sex with him

  • 1 decade ago

    Not bleeding after sex is not necessary not a virgin.

    You can break you hymen when doing active sport.

    Don't worry too much , just enjoy SEX.

    Bor Hor Hor !

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