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Is this a normal convo in an early relationship?
I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about 3 weeks, and the other night we had a full on coversation about having kids together! We didn't find it awkward and we actually enjoyed it, talking about how many kids we wanted and how we would raise them. We both obviously want kids some day but is this a common coversation topic that you have so early in a relationship?
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- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
alot of people talk about this early in their relationships,, i think its because you are that into each other at that moment that use are talking bout having kids, coz yu's are planning to stay together forever. but just be careful sometimes.. sometimes it doesnt last forever.. and by having those convos it hurts alot when yu's break up
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Who's to say what is normal? Conversations like this depends onl the two people involved. For some it would be normal and others no. It is better to clear the air on such matter early in the relationship than later. That way you both know where the other is comming from and understand the others feeling before some one gets hurt from a misunderstanding. Good Luck.
Source(s): Father, Grand Father, Great Grand Father. - butterflyLv 51 decade ago
Each and every relationship is different what is perceived as normal or good timing in one may not be in another, but I think it is good to talk about a variety of things, this is the learning process too many people jumps into a relationship not really knowing each other, and then they are surprised to find out something that's indifferent to what they like, view, or believe.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
If you are both comfortable with it then its totally normal. It's good to get to know whether you both have the same desires and want the same things in your life. It's probably more about wanting to get to know each other, as this is a topic that will get straight to the point of what type of person you are.
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
Yes, with my current bf we discussed this very early too. I think it's healthy to know your new partner's future plans are when determining whether you're compatible and whether a long-term relationship is a viable option.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Watever floats ur boat.
Source(s): GO FETISHES!! - Forlorn HopeLv 71 decade ago
talking about kids after 3 weeks is weird... you should be talking about sex only... ;)