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Could I be addicted to sex (10 points)?
Here's the thing. Im a lesbian butch and my ex girlfreind and the girl i'm currently talking to both told me im a freak and I love having sex to much. Its not that I think about it all the time but when I do have sex I really have a passion for it and I don't stop till we're both satisfied. Sometimes I get horny randomly and I crave it but I would never beg for it. Could I be addicted to it? Best answer gets 10 points.
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- scibearLv 41 decade agoFavorite Answer
There's a difference between having a strong libido (sex drive) and sexual addiction. When you have sex, are you doing it with just your partner or are you out seeking sex with strangers? Do you masturbate several times a day? Do you watch porn a lot? Are you using sex to fill a void (no pun intended) in your life rather than just to satisfy your libido? Sex becomes an addiction when we do it compulsively (meaning that we have no control over our urges), dangerously (having sex in unsafe places, having unsafe sex and having sex with unsafe people in unsafe situations), and without regard for the feelings of our partner. If any of these things apply to you, you might be a sex addict..
HOWEVER, because you're butch, you probably have a more "male" type of sex drive. If you tend to date femmes, they might find your sex drive too masculine and so complain that you "like it too much." Straight women often have the same complaint about their husbands/boyfriends The fact that you "get horny randomly" really does sound like a male thing...i get hard for no good reason like 5 or 6 times a day...much more when i was younger ;) Also, the fact that you "never beg for it" indicates that you're not willing to trade your self-respect for sex, which means that you're probably NOT addicted to sex. I think you should tell your girlfriends that you just have a strong sex drive...Also, it's possible that you may not be connecting emotionally with your girlfriends: i know that women "tend" to get off more easily and enjoy sex more when there's a deep emotional component to it: again, many straight women have the same complaint about their husbands/boyfriends. Maybe you need a partner with an equally strong sex drive ;)
- 1 decade ago
Hmm, I think that you are addicted to sex if you really love it that much. I know for a fact that when I am with my bf lol we cant stop going at it either. It may either be your addicted to sex or you just have so much passion for her that every time your with her you are just like OMG so horny!
- Anonymous1 decade ago
yeah....
I am a little addicted too aswell... is not like im going to **** anything that walks when im horny.... lmao...
But addiction is that u sometimes need it a littlemore often than the rest... And is not just love is that u think u need to lol....
So i would give you a yes XD
- Sandy KLv 71 decade ago
It does sound like you are addicted beyond your control. It does happen and you can't help it. I don't know what type of medical person you could talk with for help.Is there such a thing as a sexologist?
I wish you the best of luck.
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
That doesn't sound like an addiction to me.
- 1 decade ago
heres a quiz to help you know if you are really addicted to sex
- 1 decade ago
That could read as addicted to sex or that you really really really really really really really really really really really really like sex XD
Edit: Tiffany are you trying you being the new wannabe queen whitney? or Zellparis.
Source(s): My Mind, My Bible and My Lifestyle. - Anonymous1 decade ago
sex iz funn so of course u like it!!
- Anonymous1 decade ago
its inevitable...your gay which means your horny 24/7
Queen Whitney or Zellparis? No idea who those people are...I'm not trying to be anything but myself and speak my mind like you are yours whether you like it or not. Too bad!