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If My Ex Texts Me Within A Week After Breaking Up With Me?

He's texting me already and I don't know what to do

I really want him back.

He was the one who left me.

I don't know what to do, but I want him.

So badly I can't sleep.

What can I do?

Update:

He dumped me because he thought he was moving but he isn't now. It was meant to be "easier on me" and he said I deserve better than him.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Move on. You two need some space.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    What you do is your choice. If you want him back, keep talking to him casually and see where it leads, that's all you really can do.

    You also need to realize what went wrong. If he was an ***, you probably don't want him back. I was in a situation like that where my boyfriend was a jerk, broke up with me and would constantly come back and start talking to me even though he was the one to call it off. I wanted him back and it took a long time before I realized what a jerk he was.

    This was 4 years ago and he still tries to come back and talk to me everyone once in a while. At some point you just got to break any connection you have or you will have a LOT of trouble getting over him.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You need to work out if he is worth it. Actually sit down and go through all the good and bad things about this guy.

    Ask yourself why he broke up with you and whether it was a legitimate reason. If it was your fault, do you have what it takes to fix it and make your relationship work a second time around?

    And do you have any reason not to trust him?

    Honestly, you have to decide whether you need and want him in your life.

    Though it sounds as if he regrets it as much as you do so I think you should communicate with him and discuss what broke you apart. Do not stay with him if he left you for another woman or has ever hurt you in any way.

  • 1 decade ago

    Text him back. And find out whether it's just a friendly text or whether he wants you too.

    If he says he misses you say you miss him too. But don't be the first to say it unless it's totally obvious. That can leave you out to rejection.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    he clearly likes u still or just feels guilty tell him how u feel :)

    maybe now that ur not there and gone he realise how much he needs u in his liffeee:)

    ask him y he''s textenn u 1st Gurd lukk :D

  • ?
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    He made his choice.

    If you go back to him, that will tell him that he has permission to break up with you again.

    You have to remain strong.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    got a reason y he dumped yew?

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You should think about what it is that you do or dont do to make him go.

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