what happens to my army husband for having sex with another army women?

In the Military it is considered fraternization. You can be busted down in rank and put on restriction plus extra duty. I saw a lot of this in the 10 years I spent in the Navy. How severe they punish you is also based on your history. Most likely it's usually restriction and duty, and they usually send a letter to the spouse informing them of the charges. That's if they were caught on a military controlled base, command. Outside of work they really can't do anything about it. Your time, is your time, unless you are breaking the law.

Nah he wouldn't go to jail but the military frowns on adultry. His command would have a field day with him but that is a big can of worms to open cause you would have to get that other Army girl to testify to that. Good Luck. My thoughts on that is just leave his *** cause he will do it again. I am a long haul truck driver and would never do that stuff behind my wife's back. For 2 good reasons 1 I love her and respect her too much to do such a thing and 2 I would not want her to do that to me.

It's not illegal so there would be no jail time or charges but if you had evidence you could talk to his command and they'll knock either rank or pay or both. Seeing that a decrease in pay would affect you too I wouldn't recommend taking that route. You need to decide if you want to stay in that relationship or separate. If you do want to separate then you should talk to an attorney in family resource to make sure you will be covered financially.

in and of itself adultery does not break any part of UCMJ. the only time it does is when it has a negative impact on the military, such as making it look bad. and it would have to be proven.

so if your hubby and that chick are smart, they could deny, deny, deny and nothing would happen. even at most he would not get anything more than a company grade article 15 for it, though honestly i cant see it going beyond a counseling statement. this is more of a civil matter, not a criminal one.

Why would you tell the Army. Out of spite? Just get divorced. Im sure you already made plenty of mistakes in your marriage, like getting married for one. Im willing to bet your less than 21 also and got married so you two would not be separated and collect military benefits.

I don't think that constitutes any serious punishment from the Army. You on the other hand may have more serious consequences in mind.

Well, that would be considered adultery. Look up the laws for that. And if I were him I would be a hell of a lot more scared about what you would do and not the law.

depends on what you want to do. you can bust him and many things can happen... which isn't a good thing if you want to work things out. you should seek out counseling if the two of you want to work things out. if you like you can email me or im me to talk.

he can be discharged. The military is very serious about family and adultery can have you kicked out.

Wow, I can't believe you seem to be okay with him doing this. And to protect him, they could trace your posting to him possibly. Might just want to be careful!