should i give him a chance?

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I met a guy through a mutual friend and we've been talking/texting lately. i enjoy talking to him and we seem to have a little bit in common. he wants to go to dinner and hang out...i'm just not really sure how i feel about him. he's adorable but in a pinch his cheeks kind of way and i'm not really sure i'd have physical chemistry with him (he's a tiny bit femanine, it's hard to picture me with him as something other than friends). i'd rather have someone that makes me melt instead of makes me go 'aww'. i'm not completely deciding i don't like him at this point, should i give him a chance? i don't want to lead him on if i'm unsure of how i feel.

? · Accepted Answer

Do you need a commitment to marriage to just go out with a guy?

Some days we melt, some we freeze. But we always eat and sleep and try our best to enjoy life.

And despite the best weather forecasting, we never know what lies ahead until we start down the path.

Lexieinalaska · Answer

he just wants to go to dinner and  "hang out"...maybe he will be your new best friend that can give you REALLY good guy advice.  I say ...give him a chance to be in your life...we all need the "pinch his cheeks" kind of friends...they add a depth we can't get from anywhere else.

....... · Answer

I would give it a chance. You never know what can happen. If you still are not feeling him, then just tell him how you feel. Good luck.

xquisite · Answer

get to know him more, hang out with him.. and if he tries to do anything physical with you.. just explain that you like him as just a friend.  if he stops talking to you afterwards, then that means he was probably just going to use you .

2007x · Answer

give him a chance...i think the physical attraction grows when you fall in love with the person

coolchickmcc · Answer

tell him that you would like to get to know him as a friend that way if you da have more feelings for him then you can tell him. but if not then remain friends.

? · Answer

Follow your heart.

Anonymous · Answer

Give him a chance. how bad could it be? wait don't answer that lol

miss ;) · Answer

always give chances but in your case, you should know first what you feel.

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