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What age do you think should be allowed to go to boyfriends house with adults there?

I'm 14, and not allowed to. even with adults there.

Im allowed to have them come over my house but my parents have to be with us at all times, which isnt fun. And my parents are embarassing so i've never had a guy come over my house. I'm getting tired of it, they dont trust me. How can i convince them to let me go over my boyfriends house?

Thanks! (:

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  • 1 decade ago
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    It is actually simple, but still a bit confusing. You need to have your boyfriend over at your house, no matter how embarrassing your parents are. So long as you laugh and joke around with your parents, it'll seem normal to him. Once this boy has gained your parents' trust, they will be more comfortable with letting you hang out at his house. They will probably like to meet his parents, as well. Good luck, I wish you all the best, I know what growing up with embarrassing parents is like. You are definitely not alone.

  • 1 decade ago

    All you have to do is get your parents to trust you and your boyfriend. So bring him over. Another helpful thing is to have your boyfriend's parents meet yours. Then they can trust you, your boyfriend and their parents, which might make them feel better about letting you go over to his house.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Do you have to meet this person in a house? why not a public place? You're 14, and if you felt safe with this person, surely you already go somewhere without your parents so you could meet with him there.

    I think that you should ask your parents to call his parents because if they knew you were in good hands, they would not have a problem it.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Did you know that the majority of the time when a teen is telling their parents their having sex, their also telling them that their pregnant!

    Im never letting my daughter date and especially she will NEVER be allowed at any boys house without an adult present, preferably me considering a lot of parents dont seem to care what their kids are doing these days

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    just as long as they are over, they could however young to date. Age makes no difference in this subject.

  • 1 decade ago

    with adults there you should be allowed now. To be without adults you should be like 15 or 16

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    ...idk...16 or 17

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