Question about guys wearing panties?

Gay guys don't wear panties. Cross dressers do. There is a difference. Gay guys are sexually attracted to males and cross dressers just like to dress in the opposite sex's clothes.

If it is just the panties don't get so worried. Maybe they are more comfortable for him. I wear mens t shirts sometimes but only because they are more comfortable. Now if he was wearing make up and a skirt then you should ask him about it. Panties, not a big deal.

And why he acted weird. wouldn't you feel a little weird if he found out you like wearing a jock strap (just an example lol I can't see how anyone would be comfortable in that )

honey....it's impossible to decipher what "all weird and mean" is. being caught is every bit as traumatic as catching. but both are the inevitable result of fundamental dishonesty.

the idea that "i don't have to disclose anything i don't want to about myself" is thrown about with incredible irresponsibility in this venue. it's rare in here to find anyone who is involved in a successful relationship.....those who are unsuccessful are giving all the advice. apparently they are NOT good models.

for yourself and your boyfriend....successful relationships are based on faith and trust. if you don't have those things you will not have a successful relationship...period...anyone who tells you different is a liar. your relationship is now in the doldrums...not because he likes to wear panties...but because you found out about it from a source other than his mouth. he feels guilty...even if you don't mind at all, he knows he has been sneaking around behind your back doing something he didn't trust you enough to share with you.

he should feel guilty...what he has done is unconscionable. he has betrayed your trust. now, both of you will have to either find a way to repair the damage....or it will keep deteriorating until you just don't want to be around each other at all anymore.

honesty...faith....trust.....anything less is bound for failure.

Um, I'm gay and I think it's weird all together, but if you're ok with I don't understand why he'd act weird or mean about it, unless he wants to explore further with women's clothes and he's to scared to do it.... maybe?

straight guys wear panties too. I am not gay and throughly enjoy them. I also wear thigh highs and other lingerie under my male clothing

I think most here have hit it on the head. However I would add that he has not come to terms with it yet himself, and was not ready for you to know about it, and now He will have to adjust to you being OK with it, and him being OK with it.- Sort of happened to me with a friend of mine who caught me dressed en femme.

It's a touchy subject. Just give him time to get more comfortable with you.

Either he has run out of underwear of his feminine side is begin to take control.

i would think that since your asking here that your judging him incorrectly and i understand where he's coming from...

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dear, his trust in you was not misplaced, you might as well call this relationship over,,, he already has...

I wouldn't let him... lol

that he was gay.