do you consider a sin or something wrong to love while being married?

as make my day said .. .its not a sin .. but it would be kind of betryal ... thats why i hate gwaz e salonat and el arayeb ... its just about matching pair .. not a life long relation ship with a person you really want him or her for the life time ... a sin or not a sin .. betryal or no betryal .. if you were deeply in love with that person .. you wont be able to forget them .. i guess the best solution is to keep your self as busy as you can with your familyin a try to burry this feeling inside your heart .. and pray that you can forget it ..

i hate this ... life is so fcukin short to waste it being with the wrong people :(

I assume you mean to love someone besides your wife while you're married? Well, if you're talkin about just feelings then well, you haven't actually done anything.

But like, I actually got upset when I read this question and imagined it, like imagined the wife's perspective. If the guy doesn't love her in the first place, why marry her?

Also, like, personally if I was married, I don't think I'd look at any other girl, because I 'already have one'. whats the point of like cheating on your wife, so that you can marry another woman. Then aren't you gonna cheat on her, and do it again?

kol wa7ed bya5od naseebo. the important thing is to love what you have and if you don't love her, then start loving her, because u already have a girl, so don't 'waste her' and try to find another one.

just my opinion on the topic :D

of course it is a sin!

would you like your wife to love other person while being married to you?

can you tell your wife that you love some other person?

if the answer is no then you know its something wrong

When you married that lady, you promised God to love her and take care of her thus loving or thinking of any other girl is wrong because you are not keeping your promise with God!

you mean like loving another man/woman besides your husband/wife while married to them?

yeah, I think that's pretty messed up and would be a sin.

love is a strong word in English. if you LOVE a man/woman other than your spouse I believe you would have been doing 7araam stuff in order to get there. ie: you've gotten to know the man/woman pretty well and have spent time alone with them, etc.

this problem always happens in the West because there are no boundaries. it's normal for men and women to freely interact regardless of their relation to one another....but Islam tells us to lower our gaze and guard our modesty....if we follow our religion then I don't believe it would be possible to get to the point of LOVING someone else. Sure, we may find someone attractive but that is NOT the same as loving someone and I don't believe it is a sin.

Personally, I'm really rather infatuated with my husband and he never leaves my mind so even if I tried, I couldn't even find another guy that looks as good as him :)

I say, find a spouse that you are really compatible with, grow close to them and respect them when you marry them and you shouldn't have any desire to look elsewhere.

EDIT:@asker: I don't understand what you're saying in your additional details.

I don't think it's a sin because you havent done anything with the other woman. But if I was your wife I would be soo angry. I wouldnt want you to be with me while you love someone else. Why marry me in the first place???? I hope you arent in this situation now b/c youd be putting the blame on your wifey and she doesnt deserve that.

I mean, it;s not a sin, but it's totally wrong. You have a wife..why look somewhere else instead of appreciate what you have and put yur family at risk by cheating??

ok, lets get some points here

i will suppose i am you

and i am married, and i would not marry a woman, unless i'm crazy about her. i have my family, and then, i fell in love with another woman, regardless to the HOW, we will concentrate on events. so, now i have some options:

1- to cheat on my wife, and get involved in a relationship.

2- to cheat on the other woman, and tell her i am unmarried and get involved in a relationship with her.

oz she was his first

if you looked to the two options you got, you will realise that in both cases, you will have to cheat.

look to the story of Ebraham with his wives, Sara and Hajar, after being married to Hajar, and she begot him the first kid, (Ismael), when he had to go on in his assignment, God chose Sara, coz she is the origin, the basic foundation.

well, and sometimes dude, you have to sacrifice, man, can never get anything, we all learnt that even from TOM & JERRY, you can choose the new woman, but you will have to sacrifice your whole family and the life you lived for many years, and, leaving yourself to a new endless possibilities in the new relationship, after you lived for many years secured, with ur first wife.

and you can choose the family, the security, the future that you have with your family,

you can never get both

If u mean another man/woman and u just love him/her by having a crush on him/her then I don't think its something wrong as long as u don't do something serious with him/her. But if u do something serious with him/her then that's something very wrong!

Unless youre already married to 4 woman and love a 5th whats the issue? There is No excuse in Islam to cheat, if u cant keep away from her., marry her.....dont say that the culture here doesnt accept it....whats more important your culture or your soul? Having said that, we lower our gaze and dont free mix for a reason...so check yourself, before you wreck yourself!

Not a sin , but it would be considered cheating on her .