How can you get over a relationship?

you are human love,

we cant control our emotions god can.

if you cant keep someone out of your mind

then maybe they are suppose to be there.

you say you know thats its the best thing for the both of you,

then focus on what is right.

if you keep dwelling on the sadness then eventually youll run back to him

trying to get that happiness again, and youll be going in circles.

you have to also think about the future and think about others around you.

will this relationship better your future? do family/friends want me with this guy?

do i deserve better?

you can only be sad if you make yourself said.

move on woman!

so my advice is to move on and become very successful.

youre in my prayers..

You're holding on and clinging to what have been. You're missing the times you spent with him but not really the person. That's what hurts, it's like you want to feel that again you want to repeat those moments. That's the problem with memory. We're all just making memories. Those days with him are over, sentimentality is taking over, let go. Don't keep playing it back in your head. Stop your thoughts, see what's here and now. Soon, this question will just be part of memory too and will be forgotten eventually because you'll meet someone new and you'll create new memories.

I agree with "cassa" and "JKool." Times are gone and you'll have more times. Just keep busy and Let yourself have more of those times by moving on with ur life. How are you gonna have more good times sulking thinking about old ones? He'll move on and so should you, before it slaps you in the face.

Keep very busy & wait it out. Only time can help.