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IM SCARED MY BF MIGHT KILL HIMSELF!!!!!!!!!HE SENT ME THIS EMAIL!!!! WHAT DO I DO!??!?
I'm 13 and hes 14 btw
Every night, I get in a bad mood, and all the memories of the past always flood my mind making me even more upset. I just feel worthless and I could easily just laugh and smile in the face of anyone who punches me in the face, calls me a worthless ****, and treats me like ****. Because I feel as if I deserve it all. Not to long ago, maybe about 20 mins ago, my dad called me saying **** like I'll go to hell if I don't go to church and worship god and stuff and that made everything worse. Right now I'm just ******* typing my mind out. Really no point in sending this message out, because it nor I matters. And it's pointless to read. I just feel like a ******* screw up who deserves to beaten, hung, tortured, and antogonized because Im so ******* worthless. I don't deserve any happiness because I'm that much of a mistake in life. As my dad explained, I was born by mistake. He didn't want to get my mom pregnant, and appearently she did which caused me to be a mistake on this earth. It was a mistake for anybody to have ever talked to me, or ever agknoledged me, or befriended me. All I am in life is just a major waste of time, energy, and space. My dad could have married some other chick and ****** her and had a kid who wouldn't be a mistake to talk to, exist, befriend, or agknoledge. And he would deserve it all, and he could have it all, and be happy. Unlike myself, I only have a few things in life that keep me moving; while the rest of the world always has to tell me to shut up and die and get out of other people's lives. As everyone says, I'm a mistake, I'm worthless, I'm a failure, and I'm hated. They are all better people than me so I don't do anything about it because they appearently just naturally have the power to talk **** over me, and take everything I have, and rip out my only chance to be normal, and actualy have a future and a good life. I don't deserve anything in life. I don't deserve happiness in life, I see why I don't receive it. I don't deserve to have a good future, I don't deserve to have a job, I don't deserve to have a family, I don't deserve to have a home, I dont deserve to be happy, I don't deserve to go to school, I dont deserve to graduate from anything, and I don't deserve to live. All I deserve is to be in a dark, cold, quiet room; isolated from everyone; to make them happy. My friend's deserve better than me, you deserve better than me, and the world deserves better than a stupid worthless mother ******* god damned son of a ***** mistake like me. And I shouldn't even be pouring out all this **** into your hands because you don't deserve for people to spill their **** onto you. I should just be bottling this up inside and suffering the way I deserve to. Suffering like the way I was made to. Suffering for the reason I was created to.
He was abused by his father, about 2 years ago. He used to throw him up against the wall and call him the devil
12 Answers
- cheruvimaLv 71 decade agoFavorite Answer
You go to your parents and show them this RIGHT NOW. Your parents will know how to help your boyfriend. And if they don't, you be brave enough to ask your boyfriend what you need to know. You ask him if he's thinking of taking his life. Ask him outright. If he even hints that he is, you call 911. Period. End of story. God bless you and help you...both of you.
- Anonymous5 years ago
In the end everything will be ok. If it's not, it's not the end. My advise to you is to talk to some one else because your school counselor does not seem like a positive person. DO NOT KILL YOURSELF. Suicide is NOT the answer, if anything it hurts the people who care most about you. The best thing to do is the talk to someone (another professional or someone who you trust) about your feeling's and see how everything turns out. I don't personally know you but you are NOT a mistake because God doesn't make mistakes. There is nothing you can do to change your families feeling's so you have to pick up your grades so that when it comes time for college you can go far away. I hope everything turns out ok.
- 1 decade ago
Wow, sounds like some heavy burdens to carry - for you AND your bf. In many ways, this sounds very similar to the stuff I used to tell myself when my parent verbally abused me.
Even though I don't know your BF or his/her family, I bet my life that all these things your bf feels are things that his/her dad said to your bf. My heart was breaking as a read all the things that your bf said s/he doesn't deserve.
It's good that your bf IS talking to you about this and that s/he acknowledges that there are a few things in life that keep him/her going. That means there's still a little hope! Your bf needs to hold on to the things in life that keeps him or her going and keep letting these feelings out.
S/he needs to go to counseling (get professional help) if possible to help cope with the negative and abusive home life. You? Just be there as a friend to listen, acknowledge the feelings, and ENCOURAGE!!!! That's what your bf needs. Keep telling him or her that they DO have worth and value (give specific examples of what makes them a great person in your eyes and in the eyes of other people that care about your bf), and encourage your bf to spend as much time as possible around the people that truly care. If this situation turns violent or physically abusive (or if it already at this point), you should look into options of having authorities or professionals step in.
Source(s): Personal experience, recommendations from mentors and counselors. - Anonymous1 decade ago
Be supportive. You know he's not worthless! You can convince him of this better than we can. Remind him of what he means to the people in his life. Tell him how he affects them positively. Remind him of all of his good qualities, and the good he can do for the people in his life now and in the future. Research suicide hotlines, free counseling and support groups in the area. Make a teacher or the school counselor aware of what he's going through. They will make sure he gets the appropriate help. If you think he's going to kill himself, talk to him, try to be there wherever he is, and if you even have the slightest suspicion that something is wrong... CALL THE POLICE. Good luck.
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
You will be okay just read this and talk to me later.
When you have a bad past/rejection/father gone it lets other things start. Cutting, OCD, Anxiety, panic attacks, hearing voices can all come from a tramautic past. Its opens doors to the negative and they start to dwell closeby. Hurting people also hurt themselves.
People/parents do mean things or lie to manipulate. They just want the reaction so they can get high feel good from it. The words are not true. You can talk to me or Google "Emotional Abuse" and see all the definitions and see its all true. Knowing the truth is the step to freedom from pain. They are the ones who have problems not you. They are weak.
Demons are fallen angels, angels who rebelled against God. Demons are evil, deceptive, and destructive. According to 2 Corinthians 11:14-15, demons masquerade as “angels of light” and as “servants of righteousness.” Appearing as a “ghost” and impersonating a deceased human being definitely is a disguise that demons use as well as other things like aliens wolves etc.
Demons cause people to be very sad and to seem to have many mental problems.
God helps anyone even if they dont know him.
1. Play Christian music.
2. Say get out in Jesus name in each room.
3. Throw away Ouija boards.
4. Dont consult mediums or talk to spirits it will make it worse.
5.. They are weak and God helps ne one who asks no matter who you are.
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Source- Experience
Church wont save or put you in hell. That has nothing to do with it all. Relax..
- Anonymous1 decade ago
You need to realize that you are worthy of love. Because you are. Check out this organization, To Write Love On Her Arms, (ww.twloha.com). You have a hope and a future. You're here for a reason!! And it's not suffering. It's (at least in part I believe) to recieve and give love. You really should find someone you can talk to. Don't bottle it up.
- 1 decade ago
WOW thats so sad he needs help for real try and talk to him and tell him he is worth everything to you and that you love him with all your heart and that you truely care about him he needs someone to love him the right way it seems like he gets treated bad and shouldnt be i cant even think of way people put other people down like that its messed up but plz just try and talk to him about it and if it doesnt help get help for him because he needs it 4 real before he does something to himself i hope the best for him and you
- 1 decade ago
Tell ur BF that Jesus loves him and that he was meant to be with one purpose... to live for Jesus. His parents must know how he feels so they can do something to help him and if not, Jesus can give him all the love he needs.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
tell to take happy pills